Live Coaching Call 05.24.2022
Amanda coached on the following:
- (02:12) – Hi Amanda. I am an Intuitive Eating and Body Image Coach as well and my husband is becoming impatient with how long it takes to uplift the business. I am making some money but not at the goal we want. I am trying to be a good steward over what I do with my time, talents and business. And with that stewardship, I have come to learn that it means to let go of the results. God is ultimately in charge and I can only influence sales. I have faith that with time and hard work, it will come. What I do is invaluable and I have already been “successful” by changing some women’s lives.
I am sometimes strong with standing my ground and not being swayed by my husbands comments and doubt. But sometimes it is just too much. We try to communicate. I try to tell him to be more patient and to support the “wins” I do have. But He is getting anxious. He used to work a second job and with me starting this business a couple of years ago, we decided together, to let it go so that there was more time fore me to uplift my biz. (SO he is showing me support, by giving up that second job.) He says he would like to work more to help us. He lives in the land of “IF” it works. And I live in the land of “WHEN” it works.
This is a heated topic for us and I would love your perspective on it since you are a coach yourself. I know with a lot of the self coaching I have done, the answer is to REALLY get crystal clear about what are my thoughts and what are his. But I have gotten so worn down over time. I need helping knowing what to do when it gets to that point – so tired out by it.
- (45:02) – I hate being misunderstood. I don’t want people to misunderstand me so that they can make the right judgements. I feel sad that if they just understood they wouldn’t have had to go through hardship.