Amanda coached on the following:
- (01:20) – My husband and I have been talking more about when we need to do. He had his list of ultimatums that he can’t go back on or else he thinks we may need to separate. I could not agree to one of them since it doesn’t feel right to me.
This is the concept that we could not agree on: that he wants me to be into him for HIM. He doesn’t want to have me turned on with other resources. He believes that a good marriage will be that us ALONE are the one who turn each other on.
I need help navigating why I have been turning other sources to do that in my recent past as I have been a part of this group. It is a new concept to me that I want to be sure is right. And maybe any insight into what he may be wanting and trying to understand where he is coming from.
- (37:15) – When my husband and I discuss things, if he doesn’t like what I say he always turns it back on me. How do I deal with this?