For many years, I hated sex.  

I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about it.  As a teen I felt a lot of shame about my sexual thoughts and feelings. And when I got married, sex was NOT what I thought it would be.

For years I had sex out of obligation.  I did it just to fulfill his “needs” and get him off my back for a while.  It wasn’t pleasurable and I felt used, broken, and ashamed. And honestly, I would have been fine if we never had sex again.

After twelve years of marriage, I decided something needed to change.  I began educating myself, facing my sexual shame head on, and things started to shift. I began to see myself and sex in a new way.  Sex became something that could bless my life and my marriage instead of hinder it.

I have been studying sex and sexuality for the last 12 years.  

I now LOVE sex!  

And I can help you change the way you feel about it too!