Hi, I’m Amanda Louder
I’m a Certified Life Coach, and am currently working on a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coaching certification as well.
My speciality is helping Conservative Christian women learn to embrace their sexuality, and love their sex life (for them!) And I absolutely love serving women and marriages in this way.
I grew up just north of Salt Lake City, Utah as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) in a strong two-parent home with two younger siblings. After graduating high school, I attended Brigham Young University and studied Business Management with an emphasis in Entrepreneurship. I married my first husband just after my Freshman year. Together we had 3 children and we divorced after 13-years of marriage.
I’ve been married to my amazing husband Kevin since 2012 and we have a beautiful life together. I am a step-mom to his two daughters, and our five children are now ages 13-22. I’ve also recently become a dog mom to our cute maltipoo (I never thought I would say that!)
After growing up in a home where we didn’t talk about sex, I had a lot of shame around my sexuality and spent almost my entire first marriage hating sex. I didn’t enjoy it, didn’t have pleasure from it, and only did it to get him off of my back for a while. But when our marriage really started going south I thought that maybe improving our sex life would help, so I starting learning everything I could about sex and sexuality, despite my deep shame.
What I learned is that I didn’t have a very good relationship with myself. And through working on myself and sex, I began to change. I no longer felt powerless in my marriage and my confidence grew. I quickly realized that sex wasn’t going to fix my marriage, and it ended in divorce. But better things were on the horizon.
Now that I am married to Kevin, I am living the life I always dreamed of. We have an amazing marriage and a great sex life. I have been coaching women in their marriages since 2018 and I feel happier and more content than I have ever been. I want that for you too.
Kevin and I live in Salt Lake City. When we aren’t watch our middle daughter play softball, you can usually find us on camping and fishing for salmon on a local area lake. In my spare time, I love to read, and binge shows on Netflix.
After learning the tools that my coach taught me, I feel like I am finally who I am supposed to be and where I am supposed to be in my life. I’d love to help you find the same peace, happiness, empowerment, and joy that I’ve found.