SEX & MARRIAGE COACHING FOR CHRISTIANS
You deserve a sex life you actually want.
For individuals and couples of faith who grew up with shame, silence, or confusing messages about sex and marriage. I offer a different path. One that honors your faith, your body, and the intimacy you were created to experience.
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EPISODES DOWNLOADED
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YEARS COACHING
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LIVES TRANSFORMED
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
You don’t have a
desire problem.
You have a belief problem.
Most people raised in conservative Christian homes were never taught that sex is something they get to want, enjoy, and pursue. They were taught to give it, tolerate it, or feel ashamed of even thinking about it.
I believe that’s a lie. And I’ve spent eight years helping individuals and couples unlearn it.
- Sex feels like a chore or an obligation, and you do it mostly to keep the peace.
- Pleasure feels out of reach, and you've started to wonder if something is wrong with you.
- You carry beliefs about sex that were handed to you by your faith community, and you've never stopped to question them.
- You and your spouse keep hitting the same wall around desire, connection, or communication, and nothing seems to shift it.
- You know something needs to change but you don't know where to start, and talking about it feels almost impossible.
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
This is not a far-off dream. It is what happens when people do this work. You can get there too.
WHAT’S POSSIBLE
Find Your Starting Point
Every person’s situation is different. Here are the three ways I can help, and how to know which one is right for you.
MOST POPULAR – WOMEN
Embrace You Elite Society
A monthly membership with a full 12-module video course, semi-private and group coaching calls, private podcast feed, embodiment practices, and a community of women doing this work alongside you. This is where most women start.
$49/month or $499/year.
PERSONALIZED – INDIVIDUALS & COUPLES
Private Coaching
One-on-one coaching for individuals, men or women, who want focused, personalized support. Couples coaching is available for those ready to do this work together. This is where the deep breakthroughs happen fastest.
SELF-PACED – ENGAGED COUPLES
Engaged Couples Course
A self-paced course for couples preparing for marriage who want to build a healthy sexual and emotional foundation before they say “I do.” Always open, enroll anytime. $150 or $199 with coaching session.
CLASSES – FREE & PAID
Classes
The Intricacies of Women’s Desire is a free class with real, substantive content on how desire works. Strengthen Your Marriage is a 3-week live couples class at $399, offered a couple of times a year. A good place to start before committing to coaching.
ABOUT AMANDA
I spent over a decade of my life hating sex.
I grew up LDS in a home where sex was never talked about. As a teenager I carried deep shame about my own sexuality. When I got married, sex was nothing like I thought it would be. For years I only went along with it to keep the peace.
When my first marriage fell apart, I started learning everything I could. What I found changed everything. I didn’t have a sex problem. I had a belief problem, a shame problem, a self-worth problem.
I’ve now been studying sex, marriage, and the psychology of desire since 2010. I have a marriage I love, a sex life I genuinely enjoy, and I’ve helped hundreds of individuals and couples get there too.
- Certified Life Coach, The Life Coach School
- Advanced Certification in Relationship Coaching
- Training in Somatic Work & Trauma
- Relational Life Institute Training
SEX FOR SAINTS PODCAST
Over 1.9 million
episodes downloaded.
Every week I tackle the topics Christians are thinking about but not talking about. Sex, desire, shame, marriage, your body, and your faith. Real, direct, and grounded in solid frameworks. No fluff and no euphemisms.
New here? Start with the free Podcast Guide to find the right episodes for exactly where you are right now.
As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!
In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.
Most couples can describe exactly what is wrong with their sex life. Ask them what they want instead, and the room goes quiet. This episode lays out what a healthy sexual relationship actually looks like, starting with six principles of sexual health as the bare minimum and then going well past them. You will hear why one-sided sex quietly wears a marriage down, what a real yes sounds like, why saying no should never cost you anything, and why being known by your spouse matters more than any technique. If nobody ever gave you a picture of what you are building toward, this episode gives you one.
CLIENT STORIES
Real people. Real results.
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My marriage was in a very bad place. I hated sex. After coaching with Amanda, sex is so much fun now. I daydream about it, which I never imagined I could say. We flirt. We communicate. We feel a stronger connection than ever before.
Jeaneen
Individual Coaching Client
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Working with Amanda was a game-changer for my wife and me. We didn’t even talk about sex in our sessions, yet she helped us connect emotionally in a way that brought the physical intimacy back naturally. After 25 years of marriage, I feel closer to my wife than ever before.
Todd
Couples Coaching Client
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My husband and I had a pattern for 23 years. Amanda gave me the tools to become solid in myself. The more solid I became in who I wanted to be, the better our relationship got. There is a peace between us that we haven’t had in years.
Elaine Cook
Coaching Client
READY TO START
You don’t have to keep
enduring this.
Whether you’ve been struggling for years or you just know something could be so much better, this work is for you. You are not broken. You are not too far gone. You just haven’t had the right tools yet.