WOMEN’S MEMBERSHIP
Embrace You
Elite Society
A monthly membership for women who are ready to stop feeling broken and do the real work. This is where most women start, and for many it is exactly what they need.
Or $499/year (two months free). Cancel anytime.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You’re not broken.
But something has to change.
Most of the women who find their way here were raised in conservative faith communities where sex was either never discussed or discussed in ways that left lasting damage. They walk into marriage carrying shame, misinformation, and a complicated relationship with their own bodies, and then wonder why sex feels like a problem rather than a gift.
The good news is that what was learned can be unlearned. I believe that, because I lived it.
- Sex feels like a chore or something you do just for him
- You've never experienced pleasure or orgasm
- Desire feels low or completely absent
- You carry deep shame about your own sexuality
- You believe good women shouldn't want or enjoy sex
- You feel broken or like something is wrong with you
- You're the higher desire partner and feel alone in that
- You want a deeper connection with your spouse but don't know how to get there
- You want things to be different but don't know where to start
WHAT’S INSIDE
Four pillars.
One complete experience.
This is not a passive program. It is a full coaching experience with a structured course, live coaching, and a community of women doing this work alongside you.
PILLAR 1
The 12-Module Video Course
The Embrace You! course is the foundation of the membership (valued at $499 on its own). Each lesson builds on the last, giving you the mindset tools you need before moving into deeper somatic work. A workbook accompanies every lesson.
PILLAR 2
Coaching
This is where the real work happens. Mindset shifts don’t stick without application, and coaching keeps you moving forward. You have several options based on your comfort level:
- Monthly group coaching call open to the full membership
- Weekly semi-private coaching: just you and Amanda, 20 minutes, sign up based on availability. You can choose to have it aired to the membership anonymously so others can learn from it
- Private 1:1 sessions at a discounted rate for members
PILLAR 3
Embodiment Practices
Sex lives in the body, not just the mind. Embodiment practices help you feel safe, experience pleasure, and reconnect with your physical self. Some are done in coaching sessions, others are for you to do privately at your own pace and comfort level.
PILLAR 4
Ongoing Learning + Community
Monthly classes and workshops from Amanda and guest coaches keep the learning going beyond the core course. Everything is available on a private podcast feed so you never have to miss a session. You can listen on any podcast app instead of logging into a website.
- Private podcast feed of all calls and classes
- Ask Amanda written coaching, submitted anonymously anytime
- Discounts on selected live events
- A community of women doing this same work
THE 12-MODULE COURSE
What you will learn.
Lesson 1:
The Art and Science of Getting in the Mood
Lesson 2:
Sexual-Based Resentment, Guilt, and Shame: Release and Heal
Lesson 3:
Emotional Responsibility and Independence
Lesson 4:
Sexual Belief Systems: What’s Working and What’s Not
Lesson 5:
Loving Yourself and Owning Your Desires
Lesson 6:
Confidence In and Out of the Bedroom
Lesson 7:
What You Can Control in Your Relationship
Lesson 8:
Dropping Expectations Without Being a Doormat
Lesson 9:
The Stages of Sex: Connection, Desire, Arousal, and Orgasm
Lesson 10:
Eroticism, Pleasure, and Fantasy
Lesson 11:
Creating a Healthy Sexual Relationship
Lesson 12:
Expanding Your Sexual Self
WHAT MEMBERS SAY
Real women.
Real results.
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Before I tried coaching with Amanda, I felt like I was so far beyond help. I had tried everything. After talking with her for a few minutes we decided to sign up. 12 weeks later and I am a believer. Sex is no longer cause for anxiety or fear. It’s something I actually look forward to.
Joy
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I learned that I get to decide what is right for me, no one else. This program helped me open up to my husband and have actual conversations about sex. The confidence I gained has spilled over into every area of my life. I have more compassion for myself and others.
Amy Clark
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The feelings of shame have just been obliterated by doing this work. I have found freedom, especially in this most intimate of areas. I am more aware of my thoughts and their influence. I have a voice now.
Rebecca
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Thank you so much Amanda for coaching me today. You telling me that my brain is the driver and sex is a mindset alone gave me so much hope. I have felt broken for a long time. I am excited to put into practice what we talked about.
Alisha, after her first coaching session
INVESTMENT
Simple, straightforward pricing.
No contracts. Cancel anytime. If you rejoin after canceling, you’ll rejoin at whatever the current monthly rate is.
Membership fees are non-refundable. When you cancel, your access continues through the end of your current billing period.
MONTHLY
$49/mo
Full access to everything in the membership. Cancel anytime, no questions asked.
ANNUAL
$499
per year – two months free
Pay once for the full year and save over $89 compared to monthly. Full access to everything.
BEST VALUE
You can be coached on anything inside the membership, not just sex. This work touches every part of your life.
This is not the right fit if…
- You have had sexual trauma that has not already been addressed with a therapist
- You have never had sexual attraction or feelings for your spouse, or identify as asexual
- You are being pushed into this by your spouse and don't actually want to be here
This is the right fit if…
- You want a more intimate, passionate, and connected relationship with yourself and your spouse
- You want to feel more confident in and out of the bedroom
- You want to stop feeling anxiety and dread around sex
- You want to understand your own body and what it is capable of
- You want to navigate desire discrepancy and relationship dynamics with more ease
- You're ready to own your sexuality rather than hide from it
COMMON QUESTIONS
Before you join.
What is the difference between coaching and therapy?
Therapy is best when you are under-functioning and want to return to a healthy baseline. Coaching is for when you are already at a functioning baseline and want things to get better. I do not diagnose or treat mental health conditions. If you have unresolved sexual trauma, I will refer you to a trauma therapist. It is possible to see a trauma therapist and do coaching at the same time.
Do I have to be currently married to join?
No. Whether you are single, divorced, or widowed, you still have a relationship with your sexuality. The work you do here belongs to you regardless of your relationship status, and it will carry into any future relationship you choose.
I am the higher desire partner. Will this still help me?
Yes. This membership is about you and your relationship with your own sexuality, regardless of your position on the desire spectrum. The course and coaching apply whether you are lower or higher desire, and I will meet you exactly where you are.
Do I have to be LDS to join?
No. Women from other faith backgrounds and women who are not religious at all are absolutely welcome. I teach from my own conservative Christian values, but I do not impose them on anyone. I meet you where you are, without judgment.
Can my husband be involved?
This membership is designed for women, but I offer individual coaching for men and couples coaching for partners who want to do their own work. Couples who each do individual work tend to see the most progress.
What if I can’t make it to the live calls?
Everything is recorded and added to a private podcast feed. You can listen on any podcast app at any time, so you never miss the group call or any class because of your schedule. Semi-private coaching slots are sign-up based, so you choose a time that works for you.
READY TO START?
You don’t have to keep
white-knuckling this alone.
The Embrace You Elite Society is $49 a month. It is the most accessible way to work with me, and for a lot of women it is exactly what they need.
No contract. Cancel anytime.