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SEX FOR SAINTS PODCAST
Honest conversations about sex and marriage for people of faith.
Over 400 episodes of honest, shame-free conversations about sex and marriage for people of faith. For women, men, and couples. New episodes every week.
ABOUT THE PODCAST
The show nobody else is making.
Sex for Saints exists because people of faith deserve honest, shame-free conversations about sexuality and marriage. Most of what is available is either clinically detached or completely disconnected from faith. This podcast bridges that gap.
The show covers women’s experience, men’s experience, and the couple’s dynamic. While the episodes specifically about sex tend to get the most downloads, the real depth of this podcast is in the marriage work: how to build genuine intimacy, how to communicate about hard things, how to stop repeating the same patterns, and how to create a relationship that both partners actually want to be in.
Couples use episodes as conversation starters for topics that are hard to bring up on their own. Men who want to understand what their wives are experiencing have found it invaluable. And women who have never heard their own experience named out loud finally feel like they are not broken.
Topics Covered
- Women's desire and why it works differently than most people think
- Shame, guilt, and the religious messages that created them
- Desire discrepancy and what to do when partners want different amounts
- Emotional connection, intimacy, and what gets in the way
- Orgasm, pleasure, and body confidence
- Communication about sex in marriage
- How your beliefs and thought patterns shape your sex life
- Obligation sex, duty sex, and resentment
- Eroticism, fantasy, and what a healthy sexual relationship looks like
- And a lot of topics most people are too afraid to name out loud
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Sex for Saints
As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!
In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.
Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership.
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Watch on YouTube
Prefer video? Every episode is also available on YouTube. A great option for couples who want to watch together and use episodes as a starting point for their own conversations.