COUPLES COACHING
Build something
worth wanting.
Couples coaching for partners who are ready to address the patterns they have created together and do something different. This is not traditional couples therapy. It is something that actually works.
WHAT BRINGS COUPLES HERE
You didn’t create these patterns on purpose.
Most couples go into marriage carrying unexamined beliefs about sex, intimacy, and what a relationship is supposed to look like. Those beliefs come from family, religion, and culture, and most of them were never examined or challenged. Over time, the two of you built a dynamic together out of those unexamined beliefs, and now that dynamic has a life of its own.
You did not cause this intentionally. But you are both responsible for what happens next.
- You fight about sex constantly, or you've stopped talking about it altogether
- One of you wants more and the other feels pressured or guilty
- You feel more like roommates than partners
- Physical intimacy has become a source of resentment rather than connection
- You've tried counseling before and it didn't stick
- You feel like you love each other but can't seem to get on the same page
- You want a better marriage but don't know what needs to change or how
WHY THIS WORKS
This is not couples therapy.
The difference matters, and it is worth understanding before you decide.
TRADITIONAL COUPLES THERAPY
Teaching each other to meet each other’s needs
Most couples therapy focuses on getting each partner to accommodate the other. It can work for a while. But eventually one or both partners starts to wonder: are you doing this because you love me, or because I asked you to? That doubt quietly erodes everything you built.
AMANDA’S APPROACH
An integrity-based mindset that changes both of you
I work differently. We address what each of you is contributing to the dynamic, how your individual beliefs and patterns are shaping the relationship, and how to build something that is actually worth wanting. Change that comes from the inside out is the only kind that lasts.
WHAT’S INCLUDED
Joint sessions and individual sessions.
Both of you work together and each of you works alone. That combination is what makes this effective.
Joint Couples Sessions
60 to 90 minutes. Both partners together. We address the shared dynamic, communication patterns, desire discrepancy, and what you are each bringing to the relationship.
Individual Sessions
45 minutes. Just you and Amanda. Each partner gets private space to do their own work, which is what makes the couples work go deeper and faster.
Customized Program
Every couple is different. The package length and session mix are tailored to your situation. We discuss what I think will serve you best during the consultation before you commit to anything.
FORMAT
Weekly on Zoom
AVAILABILITY
Tue – Thu, 10am – 2pm MT
AFTER YOUR PACKAGE
Continue or walk away — your choice
WHAT COUPLES SAY
From couples who did the work.
“
We didn’t even talk about sex in our sessions, yet Amanda helped us connect emotionally in a way that ultimately brought that physical intimacy back naturally. After 25 years of marriage, I genuinely feel closer to my wife than ever before. I only wish we had met Amanda much earlier in our marriage.
Todd · Couples Coaching Client
“
Amanda’s program completely changed the dynamic in my marriage. My husband and I had been through a few different counselors with little progress. Amanda was good about offering empathy where needed but also holding us accountable, without ever feeling like she was choosing sides. I always felt safe enough to tell her everything.
Oakley Jones · Couples Coaching Client
INVESTMENT
Choose the package that fits your situation.
We will talk through which option I think will serve you best during your consultation. You do not need to decide in advance. Payment plans are available.
Refund policy: within the first 30 days or 4 sessions, whichever comes first, I will refund any unused sessions. Sessions that have already taken place are non-refundable.
8 SESSIONS
$3,600
Total investment
A focused package for couples who have a specific issue to work through and are ready to move quickly.
12 SESSIONS
$5,400
Total investment
The most common starting point. Enough time to go deep and create lasting change across multiple areas.
16 SESSIONS
$7,200
Total investment
For couples with more complex dynamics or longer-standing patterns who want comprehensive support.
Once your package is complete, you can renew it, purchase a smaller package, buy individual sessions as needed, or simply be done. There is no pressure to continue beyond what serves you.
BEFORE YOU SCHEDULE
One requirement that is non-negotiable.
Both partners need to be willing participants. Not perfect, not without doubt, but genuinely willing to show up and do the work. If one partner is being pushed or pressured into this by the other, it will not work and I will not take you on as clients.
If couples coaching is not the right fit right now, individual coaching or the women’s membership may be a better starting point. Both are available on the Work With Me page.
Please read the FAQ before scheduling your consultation.