All of these resources are ones I personally use.
Please seek out medical advice if needed and use your own personal
judgment if they are going to work for you.
Apps
If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, but you don’t know where to start, here are some apps I like. All of these apps are on iOS, but there are probably similar ones on Android.
This is pretty robust and comes from a Christian perspective, so nothing too crazy. It’s got conversation starters, intimacy games, daily challenges, Sexploration list, intimacy bucket list, and dozens of articles from sex experts, and much more! This app is also available on Android.
This one is a private messaging app where you and your spouse can send messages, pictures, and videos, and they won’t get uploaded to the cloud or be available on other devices. It takes a special password to get in.
This is a fun app where they give you suggestions for new things to try with your partner, and you can yes, no, or maybe. If your spouse matches what you say, then you get to see the answers and make a list of things you want to try. Some ideas are probably too far fetched for most LDS couples, but lots of ideas to stretch your mind.
For more information about these apps, listen to Episode 88.
Recommended Books
Recommended Books
by Glennon Doyle
This book is a must read for every woman on the planet. It will reinforce all the of the things you learn in coaching and point you to WHY you want coaching…to understand and love yourself better.
Lingerie
I love this company. All of their images are model-free so you aren’t comparing your body to the model’s. It’s also safe for husband to shop as well! Sizes XS-3X. The lingerie is beautiful and comfortable enough to sleep in.
USA and Christian owned store offering adult products and resources (clothing, toys, furniture, etc.)
Personal Lubricant
They have lots of different flavors.
Flavored Lubricant for Oral (do not use with intercourse!)
Intimate massage cream that your body heat melts into long-lasting, flavored massage oil with lubricating properties.
Vibrators & Toys
My favorite toys are now in my Shop! If you find a toy on another website but would rather purchase it from me, please send me an email and I can price it for you. amanda@AmandaLouder.com
USA and Christian owned store offering adult products and resources (clothing, toys, furniture, etc.)
Kegel Balls
These strengthen your kegel muscles but they can also be very pleasurable (see episode 138 for more info)
Sex Clean Up
Dripstick – the world’s first after-sex clean-up sponge that removes excess fluid from the vaginal canal. Get 10% off when you order through my link.
Novelties
Oral Sex Helps
Books to Get you "In the Mood"
These books were all recommended by LDS friends, but you need to draw your own line on what is appropriate for you and what isn’t. I have not read most of these, so read at your own discretion.
Clean romance. There are bare chests for the men, and passionate kissing, but nothing more is described.
Clean romance. There are bare chests for the men, and passionate kissing, but nothing more is described.
by Several Authors, Several Time Periods (regency, modern, steampunk)
Nothing explicit, just enough to get you thinking and feeling
Courses
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