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Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

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Why do we feel judged? Most of the time it’s a story we make up in our heads based on our insecurities. But what about when they actually say it? What do you do? In this podcast, we will address what judgment and criticism are, and what to do when you do feel you are being judged by others.

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