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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be.

She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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healthy intimacy in Christian marriage, emotional maturity in relationships, sexual discipline in marriage,
Ashley Linton

Episode 375 – Sexual Discipline

What if sexual discipline isn’t about restriction, but about freedom? In this episode, I’m exploring a concept that doesn’t get much airtime in Christian marriage spaces: sexual discipline within marriage. Too often, it’s framed as something just for singles, something to “hold onto” until marriage. But what if it’s actually

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sexual novelty in marriage
Ashley Linton

Episode 371 – Why Do They Want To Try That?

When your spouse suggests trying something new sexually, like a different position, a toy, or even roleplay, it can catch you off guard. Maybe your first thought is, “Where did that come from?” and your second is, “Do I have to say yes to this to make them happy?” These

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initiating sex in marriage
Ashley Linton

Episode 369 – Are You Initiating Too Much?

Are you the one who always initiates sex in your relationship, and you’re starting to feel burnt out by it? In this episode, we explore a common dynamic I see in coaching: the higher desire partner feeling like they’re carrying the full weight of initiation, facing repeated rejection, and wondering

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post sex cleanup tips
Ashley Linton

Episode 367 – Making Sex Cleanup Simple & Stress-Free

Ever found yourself pulled out of a beautiful, intimate moment by the thought, “Ugh, now I have to clean up”? You’re definitely not alone. For many women, post-sex cleanup can feel like an annoying chore that disrupts connection and intimacy. In this episode, we’re getting real about why this moment

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temple covenants and marriage
Ashley Linton

Episode 366 – The Law of Intimacy

What if the covenants we make in the Temple are more than just promises—what if they’re a roadmap to deeper connection and intimacy? In this episode, we’re diving into the sacred covenants made in the Temple by members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints—not as a checklist

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mutuality in marriage
Ashley Linton

Episode 362 – Mutuality in the Sexual Relationship

Sex in marriage can sometimes feel imbalanced—one person initiates while the other holds the power to say yes or no, or one partner’s needs take priority over the other’s. But what if there was a way to create a deeper, more fulfilling connection? In this episode, we explore the concept

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sexual transmutation
Ashley Linton

Episode 361 – Sexual Transmutation

We often think of sexual energy as just desire, attraction, or physical connection—but what if it’s so much more? What if this energy could fuel your creativity, ambition, personal growth, and even spiritual transformation? In this episode, we’re diving into sexual transmutation—the practice of channeling your sexual energy into other

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external control in relationships
Ashley Linton

Episode 360 – Your Sexual Locus of Control

I often hear from my clients the phrase, “If only…” If only my spouse would want more sex, then I could stop feeling so frustrated. If only my spouse would stop pressuring me for sex, then I could feel more comfortable with it. If only… Have you ever thought about

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good boy syndrome
Ashley Linton

Episode 358 – Overcoming Good Boy Syndrome

Have you ever wondered if men experience the same pressures to be ‘good’ that women do? Last week, we uncovered the hidden struggles of Good Girl Syndrome—but what about the other side of the coin? Today, we’re diving into Good Boy Syndrome—a silent battle many men face, shaping how they

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