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Episode 239 – Talking to Teens about Sex Shame Free: An Interview with Crystal Bowman

Post published:November 18, 2022
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“How can I teach my kids about sex?” I get this question all of the time. As we are learning and growing, we want to help our kids have a…

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Sex for Saints

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in marriage. I walk you through how learning your own body is essential before you can share that knowledge with your spouse, and how this experience becomes one of the clearest ways to show each other what actually feels good. We will dive into the vulnerability that comes with being seen in your own pleasure, and why that vulnerability is often what creates deeper emotional and sexual connection. I will also cover the importance of consent, communication, and when this might not be the right fit for every couple. If you’re looking to move away from performance-based sex and toward something more authentic and connected, this episode will give you a whole new perspective.

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