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Episode 332 – What Is Your Touch Communicating

Post published:August 30, 2024
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I often see people wanting to uplevel their sex lives, but ignoring non-sexual touch completely. But, non-sexual physical intimacy is just as important, if not more important than sexual intimacy.…

Episode 143 – Five Mistakes Women Make In Bed

Post published:January 15, 2021
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Today I want to talk about the top 5 mistakes women make in bed, the reasons that keep them from getting aroused and enjoying sex to the fullest. Join me…

Episode 137 – The Five Gears of Touch

Post published:December 4, 2020
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Today, I’m going to discuss the five gears of touch by Barry W. McCarthy - a certified sex and couples therapist. Gear 1 begins with affectionate touch and gear 5…

Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

Post published:March 13, 2020
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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in marriage. I walk you through how learning your own body is essential before you can share that knowledge with your spouse, and how this experience becomes one of the clearest ways to show each other what actually feels good. We will dive into the vulnerability that comes with being seen in your own pleasure, and why that vulnerability is often what creates deeper emotional and sexual connection. I will also cover the importance of consent, communication, and when this might not be the right fit for every couple. If you’re looking to move away from performance-based sex and toward something more authentic and connected, this episode will give you a whole new perspective.

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Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

March 27, 2026

Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy

March 20, 2026

Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire

March 13, 2026

Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?

March 6, 2026

Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

February 27, 2026

Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen