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Willingness

Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020
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When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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Episode 135 – Creating Intimacy After Betrayal

  • Post published:November 20, 2020
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Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach and Darcy Spafford’s journey to regain intimacy after Zach’s 25 year battle with pornography. They will take you on a…

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Episode 134 – Masturbation and The Church

  • Post published:November 13, 2020
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Episode 133 – Competing Desires

  • Post published:November 6, 2020
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 Does your spouse think he is not a priority in your life?  Could he be right?  Today I will dive into true desire and false desire and how to manage…

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Episode 132 – Sex After Infant Loss

  • Post published:October 30, 2020
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Today’s podcast looks at how to deal with grief, intimacy and fear after losing a baby.  My guest, Amy Watson, is a life coach who helps mom’s who have had…

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Episode 131 – Sex and Infertility

  • Post published:October 23, 2020
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I am excited to spend some time today with Sadie Banks.  Sadie is a photographer and owner of “Good Grief” journals.  Her company was born in the midst of -…

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Episode 130 – Sex & Pregnancy

  • Post published:October 16, 2020
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Pregnancy can be a magical time- but it can also be a scary time.  There are so many unexpected changes, added hormones and a changing body.  This can have an…

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Episode 129 – The Truth About Control

  • Post published:October 9, 2020
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Do you find yourself trying to be in control of situations or others? If you stop and question the emotion that is riding along with you. . .it is fear? …

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Episode 128 – The Four Reasons Why We Have Sex

  • Post published:October 2, 2020
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I think we have covered all the reasons we don’t want sex.  But have you ever wondered why people do have the desire for sex? It is more than for…

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Episode 127 – The Power of Connection – An Interview with Anjanette Ludwig

  • Post published:September 25, 2020
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Today I am so excited to welcome Anjanette Ludwig to my podcast.  Anjanette is an amazing life coach helping moms and teens connect.  She is the life coach I hired…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

    In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is wired to see sexual vulnerability as a threat, how past experiences and conditioning shape the stories you believe, and why those stories feel so true even when they aren’t. We look at the specific lies that tend to show up for both higher-desire and lower-desire partners, and how those patterns keep couples stuck in fear, shame, and disconnection. I also share practical ways to recognize when your brain is lying, how to question those thoughts without judging yourself, and how curiosity can open the door to real intimacy again. If sex feels complicated, heavy, or confusing in your marriage, this episode will help you understand what’s actually happening and how to move forward with more clarity and compassion.

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