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Episode 144 – Five Mistakes Men Make In Bed

  • Post published:January 22, 2021
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 Last week in the podcast, we discussed 5 mistakes women make in bed.  So today let’s chat about five mistakes for men.  Neither of you want to think about or…

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Mamas In Midlife Podcast

  • Post published:January 20, 2021
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Sex & Marriage in Midlife In this episode I talk with Lisa Lewis about what sex can be like in midlife.  Listen here.

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Episode 143 – Five Mistakes Women Make In Bed

  • Post published:January 15, 2021
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Today I want to talk about the top 5 mistakes women make in bed, the reasons that keep them from getting aroused and enjoying sex to the fullest.  Join me…

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Episode 142 – The Madonna/Whore Complex

  • Post published:January 8, 2021
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Why have many in the past believed and taught that it is impossible to be a sexual being and a loving and gentle wife and mother?  Freud believed you needed…

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December 2020

  • Post published:January 1, 2021
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Episode 141 – Sexual Maturity

  • Post published:January 1, 2021
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Welcome to Live From Love and to 2021!  The podcast today is a great way to begin your year.  New thoughts, new ideas and new adventures in your marriage.  You…

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Get Your Marriage On Podcast

  • Post published:December 30, 2020
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Breaking Free of Limiting Beliefs for a Better Sex Life with Amanda Louder If you want to embrace your sexuality and love your sex life, then this episode is for…

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Episode 140 – Sexy New Year Replay

  • Post published:December 24, 2020
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Welcome 2021!  This week for the podcast I am going back to the vault and bringing out one of my favorite podcasts - wrapped around goals and resolutions in your…

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Episode 139 – Why You Need a Vibrator

  • Post published:December 18, 2020
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Last week I discussed sex toys, but this week I am taking a deep dive into vibrators.  Did you know that most women need 45-60 minutes to move from 0…

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Breaking The Silence Podcast

  • Post published:December 16, 2020
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I was interviewed by Creed and Crishelle of Breaking The Silence Podcast. We discussed how I teach clients all day about how to better their sexual health, and as a mom…

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Episode 138 – Sex Toys 101

  • Post published:December 11, 2020
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I get a lot of questions concerning sex toys. What ones are best, are they appropriate, what materials should I be looking for. . and so much more.  Tune in…

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Episode 137 – The Five Gears of Touch

  • Post published:December 4, 2020
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Today, I’m going to discuss the five gears of touch by Barry W. McCarthy - a certified sex and couples therapist.  Gear 1 begins with affectionate touch and gear 5…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

    In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in marriage. I walk you through how learning your own body is essential before you can share that knowledge with your spouse, and how this experience becomes one of the clearest ways to show each other what actually feels good. We will dive into the vulnerability that comes with being seen in your own pleasure, and why that vulnerability is often what creates deeper emotional and sexual connection. I will also cover the importance of consent, communication, and when this might not be the right fit for every couple. If you’re looking to move away from performance-based sex and toward something more authentic and connected, this episode will give you a whole new perspective.

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