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November 2020

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Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020
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When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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Episode 135 – Creating Intimacy After Betrayal

  • Post published:November 20, 2020
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Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach and Darcy Spafford’s journey to regain intimacy after Zach’s 25 year battle with pornography. They will take you on a…

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Episode 134 – Masturbation and The Church

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Episode 133 – Competing Desires

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 Does your spouse think he is not a priority in your life?  Could he be right?  Today I will dive into true desire and false desire and how to manage…

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October 2020

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Episode 132 – Sex After Infant Loss

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Today’s podcast looks at how to deal with grief, intimacy and fear after losing a baby.  My guest, Amy Watson, is a life coach who helps mom’s who have had…

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Episode 131 – Sex and Infertility

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I am excited to spend some time today with Sadie Banks.  Sadie is a photographer and owner of “Good Grief” journals.  Her company was born in the midst of -…

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Episode 130 – Sex & Pregnancy

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Pregnancy can be a magical time- but it can also be a scary time.  There are so many unexpected changes, added hormones and a changing body.  This can have an…

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Episode 129 – The Truth About Control

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Do you find yourself trying to be in control of situations or others? If you stop and question the emotion that is riding along with you. . .it is fear? …

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Episode 128 – The Four Reasons Why We Have Sex

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I think we have covered all the reasons we don’t want sex.  But have you ever wondered why people do have the desire for sex? It is more than for…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating

    How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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