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consensual conversations in marriage

Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways

  • Post published:May 15, 2026
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Hard conversations don’t fall apart because of what’s said, but often because of how they start. In this episode, I will show you why “ambush conversations” trigger defensiveness and disconnection,…

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Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide

  • Post published:May 8, 2026
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What if “protect and provide” isn’t outdated, but just misunderstood? In this episode, I will break down how these ideas have quietly shaped marriages and why the old definitions may…

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Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole

  • Post published:May 1, 2026
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What if the tension you feel around sex isn’t about your relationship at all, but about being divided within yourself? In this episode, I will unpack what sexual integrity really…

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Episode  418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve

  • Post published:April 24, 2026
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What if the very thing you’re doing to improve your sex life is actually making it worse? In this episode, I’m breaking down the “fix-it” mentality so many men bring…

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Episode 417 – Better Foreplay: What Actually Works (And What Doesn’t)

  • Post published:April 17, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about how most of us have misunderstood foreplay and why it’s not just something that happens right before sex. I share how true connection and…

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Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter

  • Post published:April 10, 2026
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Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Did I marry the right person?” I want to show you why that question is actually leading you in the wrong direction and what…

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Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex

  • Post published:April 3, 2026
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If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh…

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Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

  • Post published:March 27, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in…

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Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy

  • Post published:March 20, 2026
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What if intimacy in your marriage didn’t actually depend on your spouse showing up first? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful shift that changes how we think about emotional…

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Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire

  • Post published:March 13, 2026
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Many women assume their lack of desire means something is wrong with them, but in this episode, I am going to explain that the real issue is often passive sexuality.…

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Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?

  • Post published:March 6, 2026
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I want to talk about why sex can feel draining instead of connecting, even when it’s happening regularly, and how that disconnect quietly impacts a marriage. What does nourishing sex…

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Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

  • Post published:February 27, 2026
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When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways

    Hard conversations don’t fall apart because of what’s said, but often because of how they start. In this episode, I will show you why “ambush conversations” trigger defensiveness and disconnection, even when you’re trying to fix something important. I will walk you through how to create true consent in conversations by giving context, asking for the right timing, and honoring your spouse’s capacity to engage. I will also share what to do if you’re the one being caught off guard or if your partner keeps avoiding the conversation altogether. When you shift the way you start hard conversations, you will begin to create safety, trust, and a way forward together.

    Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
    Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
    May 15, 2026
    Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide
    May 8, 2026
    Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole
    May 1, 2026
    Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve
    April 24, 2026
    Episode 417 – Better Foreplay: What Actually Works (And What Doesn’t)
    April 17, 2026
    Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter
    April 10, 2026
    Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex
    April 3, 2026
    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation
    March 27, 2026
    Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy
    March 20, 2026
    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
    March 13, 2026
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