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duty sex in marriage

Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex

  • Post published:January 30, 2026
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In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t…

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Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

  • Post published:January 23, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts…

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Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women

  • Post published:January 16, 2026
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In this episode, I want to talk about something a lot of women quietly wonder but rarely say out loud: what if sex isn’t bad, but it’s also not very…

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Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier

  • Post published:January 9, 2026
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In this episode, I’m inviting you to look at a pattern that might be quietly shaping your sex life without you realizing it. We’re talking about what happens when sex…

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Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering

  • Post published:January 2, 2026
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Have you ever noticed how sex can feel like something you “check off,” followed by days or weeks of not thinking about it at all? In this episode, I’m inviting…

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Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

  • Post published:December 26, 2025
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In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is…

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Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire

  • Post published:December 19, 2025
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This episode marks my 400th conversation about sex, marriage, and building a relationship that actually feels good to live inside, and I’m incredibly grateful you’re here for it. To celebrate,…

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LDS Life Coaches Podcast

  • Post published:December 17, 2025
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In this episode, I join Heather from the LDS Life Coaches podcast for a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood relational dynamics: intent versus impact. Together, we explored…

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Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage

  • Post published:December 12, 2025
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In this episode, I’m talking about what it really looks like to infuse sexual energy throughout your marriage, not just during planned intimacy, but in the everyday moments that make…

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Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms

  • Post published:December 5, 2025
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In this episode, I will walk you through a question I’ve heard from so many women over the years: How do I know if I’m actually having an orgasm? I’ll…

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Episode 397 – The Unsexy Truth About Sexual Hygiene

  • Post published:November 28, 2025
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the practical side of sexual hygiene and why it matters so much for intimacy, confidence, and overall sexual health. I walk through the basics…

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Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby

  • Post published:November 21, 2025
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I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him

    What if the messages you received about sexuality shaped you more than you ever realized? In this third episode of my series, I explore how decades of cultural and religious teachings affected the way many men experience desire, shame, intimacy, and marriage. Through the stories of Bennett and Silas, I unpack how those messages can show up in very different ways and why healing begins by coming home to your own body instead of trying to earn your worth. I hope this episode gives you a deeper understanding of yourself and the path toward healthier, more connected intimacy.

    Listen to the first episode in the series here. And the second episode in the series here.

    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
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    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
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    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
    June 26, 2026
    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
    June 19, 2026
    Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
    June 12, 2026
    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
    June 5, 2026
    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
    May 29, 2026
    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
    May 22, 2026
    Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
    May 15, 2026
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