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Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2026
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Most of the fights in your marriage aren't problems to solve. They're paradoxes, and we get stuck the moment we try to pick a side instead of accepting both. In…

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Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On

  • Post published:August 14, 2026
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What if the problem in your sex life isn’t really about sex at all? In this episode, I’m talking about emotional safety and the powerful role it plays in both…

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Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda

  • Post published:August 7, 2026
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Have you ever stopped yourself from feeling close to your spouse because you were worried about where it might lead? In this episode, I explore why arousal, or what the…

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Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide

  • Post published:May 8, 2026
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What if “protect and provide” isn’t outdated, but just misunderstood? In this episode, I will break down how these ideas have quietly shaped marriages and why the old definitions may…

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Episode 372 – Better Sex Isn’t About Technique

  • Post published:June 6, 2025
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What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

    Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

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    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
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    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life
    August 21, 2026
    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
    July 24, 2026
    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
    July 17, 2026
    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
    July 10, 2026
    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
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