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Dating After Divorce

Dating After Divorce Podcast

  • Post published:July 6, 2022

In today’s episode, I share my divorce and remarriage story, how I came out of an emotionally abusive marriage and how I met my current husband six weeks after my…

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The Confident Mompreneur Podcast

  • Post published:June 7, 2022

In this episode, I talked with Kyrie from The Confident Mompreneur podcast about how to develop a better relationship with our sexuality by rebuilding our beliefs around sex, understanding how…

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Co-Parenting with Confidence Podcast

  • Post published:May 18, 2022

I spoke with Mikki Gardner of the Co-Parenting with Confidence podcast. I shared with her the story of my marriage, divorce, co-parenting, and remarriage. Listen here.

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The Cut the Chaos Podcast with Sandra Jarvis

  • Post published:April 11, 2022

I got to be a guest on The Cut the Chaos Podcast. We discussed the thought, "I do it for him," and why this is such a harmful thought for…

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The Culture Hall Podcast

  • Post published:March 8, 2022

I got to be a guest on The Culture Hall Podcast and share some things that I have come to know about our Heavenly Parents through my work. Listen here.

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The Friendly Podcast Guide

  • Post published:March 8, 2022

I got to be a guest on The Friendly Podcast Guide and share some behind the scenes about how The Sex for Saint podcast came to be. Listen here.

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want

    Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
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    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch
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    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
    September 11, 2026
    Episode 437 – Six Patterns That End Marriages
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    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
    August 28, 2026
    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life
    August 21, 2026
    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
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