I got to be a guest on The Cut the Chaos Podcast. We discussed the thought, “I do it for him,” and why this is such a harmful thought for women to have. We discussed some of the common teachings in purity culture that lead to shame and blame in sexual relationships between husbands and wives. It was a powerful discussion that encourages women to take charge of and educate themselves on their own sexuality so they can improve the intimate relationship with their spouse. We touched on everything from teaching children how to talk about their bodies to how to get comfortable talking about sex yourself.