Episode 146 – When Sex is Boring

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Sex should be anything but boring, but what I am hearing from many of you . . . is that it is exactly that. The good news is that It…

Live Coaching Call 12.30.20

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Post published:December 30, 2020
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Live Coaching Call 12.30.20 https://vimeo.com/495904990/6335863f1b Amanda Louder Coaching · 12.30.20 Live Coaching Amanda coached on the following: (0:00) I feel most comfortable being stimulated in only one area of my body…

Live Coaching Call 11.24.20

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Live Coaching Call 11.24.20 https://vimeo.com/483266768/7926fa49cf Amanda Louder Coaching · 11.24.20 Live Coaching Amanda coached on the following: (0:00) We had some technical difficulties and our coaching call didn't start for…

Episode 77 – Rejection

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Do you often reject your spouse’s advances for sex? Do you feel rejected by them? Rejection is a huge issue for many couples. Find out why we feel rejected and…

Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

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Are you the higher desire partner in your relationship? In this episode, we discuss strategies to help you build the intimate relationship with your spouse that you’ve always wanted. Play…

Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

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Post published:March 8, 2019
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Your brain will find evidence of whatever it is you are looking for in your spouse and your marriage. So what are you looking for?

Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

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Why do we feel judged? Most of the time it’s a story we make up in our heads based on our insecurities. But what about when they actually say it? What do you do? In this podcast, we will address what judgment and criticism are, and what to do when you do feel you are being judged by others.

Episode 37 – Emotional Vocabulary

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Post published:January 4, 2019
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Having a better emotional vocabulary helps you identify what you are actually feeling. The feeling of “powerful” is going to drive a lot different action than feeling “good.” So when someone asks you how you are doing today…. how do you want to answer?

Episode 25 – What Is The Story You Are Telling Yourself?

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Post published:October 12, 2018
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When something negative happens, our brains automatically make up a story to protect us. What are the stories that you tell yourself to protect yourself from feeling negative emotions? What stories disengage you from your spouse or make them into a villain? While this is a great way to protect ourselves, it takes us further away from creating the emotional intimacy and connection that we all crave in our relationships. So what stories are you telling yourself?

Sex for Saints

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life! In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

According to the Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction there are 3 positive. . .and 3 negative levels of sex in a partnership. Today I will go into each level with some detail. These levels are just to help you get an idea of where you are now and where you might want to go as your relationship evolves. You can enhance your relationship as you move up the hierarchy. I hope to help those who are in the negative range do what they need to do to move out of the degrading, shaming or even abusive levels and climb up to a safe and healthy place.

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