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lies your brain tells you about sex

Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

  • Post published:December 26, 2025

In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is…

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why flirting can backfire

Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire

  • Post published:December 19, 2025

This episode marks my 400th conversation about sex, marriage, and building a relationship that actually feels good to live inside, and I’m incredibly grateful you’re here for it. To celebrate,…

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lds lift coaches podcast

LDS Life Coaches Podcast

  • Post published:December 17, 2025

In this episode, I join Heather from the LDS Life Coaches podcast for a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood relational dynamics: intent versus impact. Together, we explored…

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why infusing passion into every day life matters

Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage

  • Post published:December 12, 2025

In this episode, I’m talking about what it really looks like to infuse sexual energy throughout your marriage, not just during planned intimacy, but in the everyday moments that make…

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techniques for better orgasms

Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms

  • Post published:December 5, 2025

In this episode, I will walk you through a question I’ve heard from so many women over the years: How do I know if I’m actually having an orgasm? I’ll…

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sexual hygiene tips, intimate hygiene for couples,

Episode 397 – The Unsexy Truth About Sexual Hygiene

  • Post published:November 28, 2025

In this episode, I’m breaking down the practical side of sexual hygiene and why it matters so much for intimacy, confidence, and overall sexual health. I walk through the basics…

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postpartum intimacy shifts

Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby

  • Post published:November 21, 2025

I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge…

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sex during pregnancy

Episode 395 – Sex During Pregnancy: A Trimester-by-Trimester Guide

  • Post published:November 14, 2025

Pregnancy brings so many changes, and your intimate life is one of them, but it doesn’t have to disappear for nine months. In this episode, I’m answering real listener questions…

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enhanced sexual connection

Episode 394 – The Unexpected Intimacy of Creating Intimacy Products with Justin and Natalie Weeks

  • Post published:November 7, 2025

In this episode, I’m sitting down with Justin and Natalie Weeks, the founders of Evree Intimate Massage Oil and Lubricant, to talk about how one thoughtful idea completely transformed their…

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sex equals love myth

Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love

  • Post published:October 31, 2025

In this episode, I dive into one of the most damaging beliefs I see in relationships: the idea that sex equals love. I’ll share why this thinking creates unnecessary pain,…

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sexual rejection in marriage

Episode 392 – Why Sexual Rejection Feels So Personal

  • Post published:October 24, 2025

Sexual rejection is one of the most painful experiences in marriage, but is your spouse really rejecting you or just rejecting sex? In this episode, I break down the two…

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framing sex as a need

Episode 391 – I Meet Her Needs, Why Won’t She Meet Mine?

  • Post published:October 17, 2025

So many men tell me, “I meet all her needs, why can’t she meet mine?” Almost always that “need” is sex. I understand the frustration behind that question, but here’s…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 447 – Getting Through the Holidays Without the Same Old Fights

    The holidays are supposed to bring us closer, and a lot of couples still know a fight is coming somewhere between Thanksgiving and New Year’s. This episode walks through the fights that show up again and again, from in-laws and whose family gets Christmas Eve to the mental load, money, and colliding traditions. It spends the most time on sex: what happens when you’re sleeping in his old bedroom with his parents on the other side of the wall, or sharing a hotel room with the kids. Using differentiation, the episode shows how to hold onto yourself and stay connected to your spouse and your family at the same time. Listen together and make a plan for before, during, and after the holidays.

    Episode 447 – Getting Through the Holidays Without the Same Old Fights
    Episode 447 – Getting Through the Holidays Without the Same Old Fights
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    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
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