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sex during pregnancy

Episode 395 – Sex During Pregnancy: A Trimester-by-Trimester Guide

  • Post published:November 14, 2025

Pregnancy brings so many changes, and your intimate life is one of them, but it doesn’t have to disappear for nine months. In this episode, I’m answering real listener questions…

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enhanced sexual connection

Episode 394 – The Unexpected Intimacy of Creating Intimacy Products with Justin and Natalie Weeks

  • Post published:November 7, 2025

In this episode, I’m sitting down with Justin and Natalie Weeks, the founders of Evree Intimate Massage Oil and Lubricant, to talk about how one thoughtful idea completely transformed their…

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sex equals love myth

Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love

  • Post published:October 31, 2025

In this episode, I dive into one of the most damaging beliefs I see in relationships: the idea that sex equals love. I’ll share why this thinking creates unnecessary pain,…

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sexual rejection in marriage

Episode 392 – Why Sexual Rejection Feels So Personal

  • Post published:October 24, 2025

Sexual rejection is one of the most painful experiences in marriage, but is your spouse really rejecting you or just rejecting sex? In this episode, I break down the two…

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framing sex as a need

Episode 391 – I Meet Her Needs, Why Won’t She Meet Mine?

  • Post published:October 17, 2025

So many men tell me, “I meet all her needs, why can’t she meet mine?” Almost always that “need” is sex. I understand the frustration behind that question, but here’s…

Continue ReadingEpisode 391 – I Meet Her Needs, Why Won’t She Meet Mine?
Neuroplasticity in relationships

Episode 390 – The Brain Chemistry of Sex

  • Post published:October 10, 2025

Have you ever wondered why you can feel like a totally different person during sex than afterward? In this episode, I break down what’s actually happening in your brain before,…

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marriage defensiveness

Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

  • Post published:October 3, 2025

In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories…

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hidden grief in religious communities, sexual grief in conservative faiths,

Episode 388 – Sexual Grief

  • Post published:September 26, 2025

Sexual grief is something many experience but few talk about. In this episode, we explore what it means to grieve the sex life you thought you’d have, and why making…

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Why do wives often reject intimacy in marriage

Episode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 19, 2025

In this episode, I’m tackling one of the most common questions I hear in my coaching practice: why do so many women say no to sex? The truth is, it’s…

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novelty in long-term marriage

Episode 386 – Blending Your Erotic Minds: How Novelty and Intimacy Keep Marriage Hot an Interview with Katie Runyan

  • Post published:September 12, 2025

In this episode, I welcome back Katie Runyon of Faithful Fling to explore how playfulness, novelty, and emotional intimacy can transform long-term marriages. Katie shares how role play dates help…

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how to overcome sexual certainty in marriage

Episode 385 – The Dangerous Illusion of Sexual Certainty

  • Post published:September 5, 2025

In this episode, we explore why sexual certainty, which is the belief that you already know exactly how intimacy should look, might actually be blocking passion and connection in your…

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safety vs security in marriage

Episode 384 – The Difference Between Safety and Security in the Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:August 29, 2025

In this episode, we’re unpacking a powerful insight that could completely transform the way you experience intimacy in your marriage. It’s all about the surprising difference between safety and security…

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  • Episode 1 – Should I Get Divorced?
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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch

    The men in my comments say the same thing over and over. She was one way before the wedding and another way after, and they feel like they were sold something that never got delivered. Women tell me the same thing from the other direction. He wanted to know everything about her before marriage, and now the only time he comes looking for her is when he wants sex. Both of them believe they got the bait and switch, and both of them are partly right. In this episode we look at what actually changed, which is not the people and not the facts, but the meanings underneath them. The way out is not deciding who lied. It is getting curious about what all of this means to the person you married.

    Get the worksheet at: www.amandalouder.com/podcast/441/

    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch
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    Episode 439 – Why the Changes You Make Never Last
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    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
    September 11, 2026
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    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
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    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life
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    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
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    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
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