Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex
If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh…
Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation
In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in…
Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy
What if intimacy in your marriage didn’t actually depend on your spouse showing up first? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful shift that changes how we think about emotional…
Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
Many women assume their lack of desire means something is wrong with them, but in this episode, I am going to explain that the real issue is often passive sexuality.…
Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?
I want to talk about why sex can feel draining instead of connecting, even when it’s happening regularly, and how that disconnect quietly impacts a marriage. What does nourishing sex…
Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based…
Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their…
Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
In this episode of Sex for Saints, I walk through the six stages of marriage and explain why so many couples feel stuck, disconnected, or ready to give up around…
Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
In this episode, I talk about a struggle I hear from women all the time but that rarely gets named out loud: loving your husband deeply while feeling disconnected from…
Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t…
Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts…
Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
In this episode, I want to talk about something a lot of women quietly wonder but rarely say out loud: what if sex isn’t bad, but it’s also not very…