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duty sex in marriage

Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex

  • Post published:January 30, 2026
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In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t…

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Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

  • Post published:January 23, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts…

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Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women

  • Post published:January 16, 2026
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In this episode, I want to talk about something a lot of women quietly wonder but rarely say out loud: what if sex isn’t bad, but it’s also not very…

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Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier

  • Post published:January 9, 2026
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In this episode, I’m inviting you to look at a pattern that might be quietly shaping your sex life without you realizing it. We’re talking about what happens when sex…

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Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering

  • Post published:January 2, 2026
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Have you ever noticed how sex can feel like something you “check off,” followed by days or weeks of not thinking about it at all? In this episode, I’m inviting…

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Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

  • Post published:December 26, 2025
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In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is…

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Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire

  • Post published:December 19, 2025
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This episode marks my 400th conversation about sex, marriage, and building a relationship that actually feels good to live inside, and I’m incredibly grateful you’re here for it. To celebrate,…

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LDS Life Coaches Podcast

  • Post published:December 17, 2025
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In this episode, I join Heather from the LDS Life Coaches podcast for a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood relational dynamics: intent versus impact. Together, we explored…

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Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage

  • Post published:December 12, 2025
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In this episode, I’m talking about what it really looks like to infuse sexual energy throughout your marriage, not just during planned intimacy, but in the everyday moments that make…

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Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms

  • Post published:December 5, 2025
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In this episode, I will walk you through a question I’ve heard from so many women over the years: How do I know if I’m actually having an orgasm? I’ll…

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Episode 397 – The Unsexy Truth About Sexual Hygiene

  • Post published:November 28, 2025
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the practical side of sexual hygiene and why it matters so much for intimacy, confidence, and overall sexual health. I walk through the basics…

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Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby

  • Post published:November 21, 2025
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I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve

    What if the very thing you’re doing to improve your sex life is actually making it worse? In this episode, I’m breaking down the “fix-it” mentality so many men bring into their relationship and why it creates pressure, shame, and disconnection instead of desire. I share what to do instead, including how to be present, listen without trying to solve, and approach intimacy as a team. We also talk about what this shift looks like in real conversations and how both partners can take ownership of their part. When you stop trying to fix your spouse and start truly seeing them, you create the conditions where real connection and desire can grow.

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    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
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    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
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    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
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