Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
In this final episode of my five-part series, I challenge the idea that our sexuality is the "natural man" and offer a new framework for understanding what King Benjamin was…
Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
What if one of the most familiar teachings about sexuality deserves a second look? In this episode, I take a careful look at Alma 39 and the teaching that sexual…
Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
What if the messages you received about sexuality shaped you more than you ever realized? In this third episode of my series, I explore how decades of cultural and religious…
Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
Have you ever wondered why intimacy can feel so difficult, even when you've done everything "right"? In this episode, I explore how the messages many women received growing up can…
Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
What if the struggles you're experiencing in your marriage started long before you ever said "I do"? In this episode, I kick off a five-part series exploring the history, teachings,…
Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it…
Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode,…
Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
When the higher desire partner stops initiating after repeated rejection, it sets off a painful cycle that neither spouse knows how to break. In this episode, we walk through why…
Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
When sexual rejection builds up in a marriage, it rarely stays contained to the bedroom. It seeps into everything — the emotional atmosphere, the small daily gestures, and eventually the…
Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
What happens when a man spends his whole life believing his desire could hurt someone? In this episode, I will explore how religious and cultural messages about male sexuality can…
Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
What if the key to a more connected, nourishing sex life is simply slowing down? In this episode of Sex for Saints, I will talk with sex researcher Chelom Leavitt…
Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
Hard conversations don’t fall apart because of what’s said, but often because of how they start. In this episode, I will show you why “ambush conversations” trigger defensiveness and disconnection,…