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marriage myths debunked

Episode 381 – Bad Marriage Advice

  • Post published:August 8, 2025

Is the marriage advice you’ve heard actually helping or quietly hurting your relationship? In this episode, Amanda interviews marriage coach and author Monica Tanner about her new book Bad Marriage…

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Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt

Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt Podcast

  • Post published:August 6, 2025

I really enjoyed this interview I did with Meagan Skidmore about how I don't believe sexuality will take us to hell. Listen to it here.

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marriage myths debunked

Episode 380 – Learning to Sit with Disappointment

  • Post published:August 1, 2025

What if the key to deeper intimacy was learning how to handle disappointment? In this episode, we’re talking about the one feeling most of us spend our lives avoiding, disappointment,…

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moms on the rise

Moms on the Rise Podcast

  • Post published:July 30, 2025

This was such a fun podcast interview! If you’ve ever thought something needs to change in my marriage, but you’re not sure where to begin — this conversation is your…

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overcoming spouse self-criticism

Episode 379 – I Guess I’m a Terrible Spouse….

  • Post published:July 25, 2025

You finally build up the courage to say something vulnerable, maybe about feeling disconnected, wanting more intimacy, or missing the spark in your relationship. And then, instead of a conversation,…

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maintenance sex in marriage

Episode 378 – Maintenance Sex

  • Post published:July 18, 2025

What comes to mind when you hear the phrase “maintenance sex”? For a lot of people, it feels unromantic - maybe even a little cringy. It doesn’t sound poetic or…

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good enough intimacy

Episode 377 – Good Enough Sex

  • Post published:July 11, 2025

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “We should have sex… but I’m just not feeling it” - only to go through the motions and walk away feeling disconnected? You’re not…

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enneagram sexual patterns

Episode 376 – The Enneagram And Sex

  • Post published:July 4, 2025

Why do you react the way you do in sexual situations, whether it’s craving something specific, avoiding certain dynamics, or feeling stuck in the same patterns? And why does your…

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healthy intimacy in Christian marriage, emotional maturity in relationships, sexual discipline in marriage,

Episode 375 – Sexual Discipline

  • Post published:June 27, 2025

What if sexual discipline isn’t about restriction, but about freedom? In this episode, I’m exploring a concept that doesn’t get much airtime in Christian marriage spaces: sexual discipline within marriage.…

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Sexual disconnect in marriage

Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025

You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

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stuck in marriage

Episode 373 – When You Feel Stuck in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:June 13, 2025

In this episode, we’re diving into something that can quietly wear down even the strongest relationships: the Two-Choice Dilemma, a concept from Dr. David Schnarch. It’s what happens when you…

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emotional safety in marriage

Episode 372 – Better Sex Isn’t About Technique

  • Post published:June 6, 2025

What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters

    Many conversations about improving your sex life focus on what men can do differently. But there’s another side that rarely gets talked about: women who can’t receive. In this episode, Amanda breaks down two distinct patterns — the wife who checks out and endures, and the wife who keeps redirecting everything back to her husband — exploring why each happens, where the need for control comes from, and what it actually takes to change. Whether you’re the one struggling to receive or the husband who’s stopped trying, this episode offers a way forward.

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    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
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