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temple covenants and marriage

Episode 366 – The Law of Intimacy

  • Post published:April 25, 2025
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What if the covenants we make in the Temple are more than just promises—what if they’re a roadmap to deeper connection and intimacy? In this episode, we’re diving into the…

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Episode 365 – Who Controls The Sex In Your Marriage?

  • Post published:April 18, 2025
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Does sex in your marriage ever feel like a power struggle? You're not alone. Whether you're the partner who wants sex more often or the one who wants it less,…

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Pelvic floor therapy for men

Episode 364 – Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy for Men

  • Post published:April 11, 2025
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Katelyn Peach, Doctor of Physical Therapy, is back for this episode where we talk about pelvic floor physical therapy for men. One of the biggest misconceptions that Katelyn sees in…

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pelvic floor physical therapy

Episode 363 – Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy for Women

  • Post published:April 4, 2025
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In this episode, Katelyn Peach, who is a Doctor of Physical Therapy, is going to be speaking with us about pelvic floor physical therapy for women. She treats patients with…

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mutuality in marriage

Episode 362 – Mutuality in the Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:March 28, 2025
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Sex in marriage can sometimes feel imbalanced—one person initiates while the other holds the power to say yes or no, or one partner’s needs take priority over the other’s. But…

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sexual transmutation

Episode 361 – Sexual Transmutation

  • Post published:March 21, 2025
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We often think of sexual energy as just desire, attraction, or physical connection—but what if it’s so much more? What if this energy could fuel your creativity, ambition, personal growth,…

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Seasons of Joy Podcast

  • Post published:March 18, 2025
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In this eye-opening conversation, I chatted with Jill Pack, a life and relationship coach. We talked about how midlife women can embrace their sexuality and find wholeness. Listen to it…

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external control in relationships

Episode 360 – Your Sexual Locus of Control

  • Post published:March 14, 2025
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I often hear from my clients the phrase, “If only…” If only my spouse would want more sex, then I could stop feeling so frustrated. If only my spouse would…

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Episode 359 – Why “Do You Love Me” Is the Wrong Question

  • Post published:March 7, 2025
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We’ve all said it at one time or another - “Do you love me?” While it seems like an innocent question, what I’ve found from working with countless couples is…

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Episode 358 – Overcoming Good Boy Syndrome

  • Post published:February 28, 2025
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Have you ever wondered if men experience the same pressures to be 'good' that women do? Last week, we uncovered the hidden struggles of Good Girl Syndrome—but what about the…

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good girl syndrome

Episode 357 – Overcoming Good Girl Syndrome

  • Post published:February 21, 2025
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What is Good Girl Syndrome? Let me answer like this - have you ever found yourself hesitating to explore your desires? Have you ever felt guilty when expressing your needs…

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freedom and sexual desire

Episode 356 – Sexual Freedom

  • Post published:February 14, 2025
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Have you ever thought about what drives your sexual desire? One key factor is the freedom we feel in our lives. Freedom plays a vital role in fostering vibrant sexuality…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt

    What if the key to a more connected, nourishing sex life is simply slowing down? In this episode of Sex for Saints, I will talk with sex researcher Chelom Leavitt about sexual mindfulness, shame, emotional connection, and why so many women struggle to feel fully present in their sexuality. We will explore how curiosity and non-judgment can transform not only our sexual experiences, but also the way we relate to ourselves, our spouses, and even our faith. We’ll also discuss women’s arousal, emotional safety, vulnerability in marriage, and why slowing down may be one of the most healing things couples can do for intimacy.

    Here’s more information about Dr. Chelom Leavitt:

    Dr. Chelom Leavitt received her PhD from Penn State. She studies sexuality in committed relationships and examines how mindfulness during sex is associated with positive outcomes for men and women. Her recent publications include work on sexual mindfulness, how loneliness impacts relationships, forgiveness, infidelity, and men’s and women’s sexual response cycles and orgasm. Chelom is married to David Leavitt, and they have nine children.

    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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