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The Expat Mom

  • Post published:March 7, 2021
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I was interviewed by Jennifer Linton for The Expat Mom Podcast. We discussed how to create more desire in your marriage. Listen here.

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The Legit Motherhood Podcast (2nd Interview)

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I was interviewed by Haili Murch for the This is Legit Motherhood podcast for the second time.  This time we discussed the importance of touch and how to get in…

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Episode 150 – The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction

  • Post published:March 5, 2021
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According to the Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction there are 3 positive. . .and 3 negative levels of sex in a partnership. Today I will go into each level with…

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Connecting With Your Spouse

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Episode 149 – The Hard Work of Marriage

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We have all heard or lived through the phrase that marriage is hard work.  Today I am digging into why it is hard, why it requires so much work.  The…

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Better Communication in Marriage

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Episode 148 – Sex and Chronic Pain or Illness

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Description Here Play in a new window Download Show Notes: Follow Amanda on Facebook and Instagram. Join Amanda's Private Facebook Group. References for this episode: www.mayoclinic.org Show Summary: Sex and…

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Episode 147 – 10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship

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What does a healthy relationship look like?  Today I will give you ten warning signs that you may need to examine.  You may need to get some help or even…

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Episode 146 – When Sex is Boring

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Sex should be anything but boring, but what I am hearing from many of you . . . is that it is exactly that.  The good news is that It…

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Episode 145 – Codependency

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Many of our marriage stories start out the same- but what happens after we say “I do?” That is where things can start to change.  You may have started to…

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    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

    Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

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    Here is the link to the book I talk about, Fully Alive.

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