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Madonna/Whore Complex

Episode 142 – The Madonna/Whore Complex

  • Post published:January 8, 2021
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Why have many in the past believed and taught that it is impossible to be a sexual being and a loving and gentle wife and mother?  Freud believed you needed…

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December 2020

  • Post published:January 1, 2021
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maturity

Episode 141 – Sexual Maturity

  • Post published:January 1, 2021
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Welcome to Live From Love and to 2021!  The podcast today is a great way to begin your year.  New thoughts, new ideas and new adventures in your marriage.  You…

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Get Your Marriage On Podcast

  • Post published:December 30, 2020
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Breaking Free of Limiting Beliefs for a Better Sex Life with Amanda Louder If you want to embrace your sexuality and love your sex life, then this episode is for…

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Episode 140 – Sexy New Year Replay

  • Post published:December 24, 2020
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Welcome 2021!  This week for the podcast I am going back to the vault and bringing out one of my favorite podcasts - wrapped around goals and resolutions in your…

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Episode 139 – Why You Need a Vibrator

  • Post published:December 18, 2020
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Last week I discussed sex toys, but this week I am taking a deep dive into vibrators.  Did you know that most women need 45-60 minutes to move from 0…

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Breaking The Silence Podcast

  • Post published:December 16, 2020
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I was interviewed by Creed and Crishelle of Breaking The Silence Podcast. We discussed how I teach clients all day about how to better their sexual health, and as a mom…

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Sex Toys

Episode 138 – Sex Toys 101

  • Post published:December 11, 2020
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I get a lot of questions concerning sex toys. What ones are best, are they appropriate, what materials should I be looking for. . and so much more.  Tune in…

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Episode 137 – The Five Gears of Touch

  • Post published:December 4, 2020
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Today, I’m going to discuss the five gears of touch by Barry W. McCarthy - a certified sex and couples therapist.  Gear 1 begins with affectionate touch and gear 5…

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November 2020

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Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020
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When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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Episode 135 – Creating Intimacy After Betrayal

  • Post published:November 20, 2020
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Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach and Darcy Spafford’s journey to regain intimacy after Zach’s 25 year battle with pornography. They will take you on a…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom

    What happens when a man spends his whole life believing his desire could hurt someone? In this episode, I will explore how religious and cultural messages about male sexuality can lead men to disconnect from their own desire, constantly monitor themselves during sex, and quietly seek validation from their wives without even realizing it. I’ll talk about how this pattern shows up differently in marriage, why it often creates pressure and disconnection for both spouses, and what actually helps men become more present and connected. I’ll also share how wives can support without taking responsibility for fixing it, and what changes when men finally learn that their desire was never the problem in the first place.

    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
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    May 15, 2026
    Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide
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    Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole
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    Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve
    April 24, 2026
    Episode 417 – Better Foreplay: What Actually Works (And What Doesn’t)
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    Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter
    April 10, 2026
    Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex
    April 3, 2026
    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation
    March 27, 2026
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