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Episode 236 – The High Achieving/Peace Keeping Dynamic

  • Post published:October 28, 2022
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In this episode, I am speaking with Rhonda Farr. Rhonda is a life coach who works with men and their emotional intimacy. We talk about the high achieving/peacekeeper dynamic that…

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Episode 235 – Coaching Changed our Marriage

  • Post published:October 21, 2022
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In this special episode, I spoke with Maddie and Matt. I have been coaching Maddie for a little over a year now. We talked about what my coaching program is…

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Episode 234 – When Kids Disrupt Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 14, 2022
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If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having sex, I would have added a lot to my piggy…

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Episode 233 – Your Sexual Prime

  • Post published:October 7, 2022
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I think it’s safe to say that we all want a great sex life. But most of us just don’t know how to get it! When we run into problems…

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Episode 232 – I Don’t Care if I Ever Have Sex Again: A Conversation with Mike Frazier, MD

  • Post published:September 30, 2022
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In this episode I’m talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks when she says that she doesn’t care if she ever…

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Episode 231 – Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 23, 2022
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Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex is or that bad sex is better than no sex.…

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Episode 230 – Sex Isn’t A Drive

  • Post published:September 16, 2022
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Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think…

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Episode 229 – Duty Sex

  • Post published:September 9, 2022
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What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it.…

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Episode 228 – Female Ejaculation

  • Post published:September 2, 2022
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One of the topics I get the most DMs about is female ejaculation. Either women who do it all the time and want to stop or women wanting to know…

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Episode 227 – How can I be Righteous and Sexual?

  • Post published:August 26, 2022
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I think most of us want to be righteous. We want to do what is right. But where is that line when it comes to sex in our marriages? That’s…

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Episode 226 – The Mental Load That Is Affecting Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 19, 2022
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Do you feel mentally overwhelmed with everything you need to do to take care of your family? With all of the activities, and the doctor's appointments, and the school calendars,…

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Episode 225 – 6 Emotional Styles of Disconnection

  • Post published:August 12, 2022
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For many of us, we are better at reading our family’s emotions than our own. Why is that and why does it matter? That’s the focus of this episode. We…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

    In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts about a partner’s past aren’t really about what happened then, but about fear and insecurity now, and why no amount of details ever brings peace. We also look at the other side of the equation: carrying a past you never disclosed, how secrets quietly create distance, and how to thoughtfully decide whether disclosure is actually the right step. Throughout the episode, I separate repentance before God from emotional healing in marriage, and explain why believing in the Atonement doesn’t mean you’re required to feel nothing. This episode is for anyone struggling with jealousy, rumination, moral superiority, or the weight of an unresolved sexual past in a faith-based marriage.

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    January 16, 2026
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    December 26, 2025
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    November 28, 2025
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    November 21, 2025
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