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Episode 245 – How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal Hansen

  • Post published:December 30, 2022
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In this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict actually builds intimacy in your marriage. I know this sounds…

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Episode 244 – How My Spouse’s Faith Journey Affected Our Sex Life – An Interview with Lisa Frehner

  • Post published:December 23, 2022
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Often in marriage, if there is disconnect in one part of the relationship, there is also disconnect in the bedroom. That’s how I came to know my guest today, Lisa.…

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Episode 243 – Masturbation Within Marriage

  • Post published:December 16, 2022
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My most downloaded podcast episode is #134 - Masturbation and the Church. I published this episode over 2 years ago and it’s still something I get asked about all of…

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Episode 242 – How To Flirt

  • Post published:December 9, 2022
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I recently had a client tell me that she has forgotten how to flirt. She wanted to find a way to make her marriage feel like more of a partnership…

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Episode 241 – Why Women Don’t Reach Orgasm

  • Post published:December 2, 2022
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I often have women come to me wondering why they’ve never had an orgasm. I realize how frustrating it is for both the wife and the husband. I want to…

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Episode 240 – How Believing You Are a Good Mom Can Help in the Bedroom: An Interview with Emily Wardrop

  • Post published:November 25, 2022
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You may look at the title of this podcast and think, “What does being a good mom have to do with the bedroom?” My guest, Emily Wardrop of Drop the…

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Read more about the article Episode 239 – Talking to Teens about Sex Shame Free: An Interview with Crystal Bowman

Episode 239 – Talking to Teens about Sex Shame Free: An Interview with Crystal Bowman

  • Post published:November 18, 2022
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“How can I teach my kids about sex?” I get this question all of the time. As we are learning and growing, we want to help our kids have a…

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Episode 238 – Coaching Amelia || Embracing You! Podcast Teaser!

  • Post published:November 11, 2022
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I have an exciting announcement! On December 6, I am debuting a brand new private podcast called Embracing You! In this new podcast, I will be sharing coaching sessions with…

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Episode 237 – Modesty & The For Strength of Youth: A Collaboration with Zach Spafford

  • Post published:November 4, 2022
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In this episode, I talk with my good friend and fellow life coach Zach Spafford about modesty and the new For the Strength of Youth guide. We talk about why…

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Episode 236 – The High Achieving/Peace Keeping Dynamic

  • Post published:October 28, 2022
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In this episode, I am speaking with Rhonda Farr. Rhonda is a life coach who works with men and their emotional intimacy. We talk about the high achieving/peacekeeper dynamic that…

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Episode 235 – Coaching Changed our Marriage

  • Post published:October 21, 2022
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In this special episode, I spoke with Maddie and Matt. I have been coaching Maddie for a little over a year now. We talked about what my coaching program is…

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Episode 234 – When Kids Disrupt Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 14, 2022
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If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having sex, I would have added a lot to my piggy…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

    In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in marriage. I walk you through how learning your own body is essential before you can share that knowledge with your spouse, and how this experience becomes one of the clearest ways to show each other what actually feels good. We will dive into the vulnerability that comes with being seen in your own pleasure, and why that vulnerability is often what creates deeper emotional and sexual connection. I will also cover the importance of consent, communication, and when this might not be the right fit for every couple. If you’re looking to move away from performance-based sex and toward something more authentic and connected, this episode will give you a whole new perspective.

    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation
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    Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy
    March 20, 2026
    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
    March 13, 2026
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    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
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    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
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