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physical vs emotional intimacy

Episode 269 – Emotional or Physical Intimacy First?

  • Post published:June 16, 2023

One of the most common disagreements I hear from couples about sex are about emotional and physical intimacy and which goes first. In my mind, it looks a lot like…

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expectations

Episode 268 – Affection Without Expectation

  • Post published:June 9, 2023

When I was first married to my first husband, it felt like he ALWAYS wanted sex. If I showed him any affection at all, it had to lead to sex.…

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Episode 267 – Sexual Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning

  • Post published:June 2, 2023

Let me ask you a question. Are you overfunctioning or underfunctioning in your sexual relationship with your spouse? Taking a look at yourself and honestly answering this question can help…

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Episode 266 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 2

  • Post published:May 26, 2023

This is part two of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. This week we’re talking more about our young adults and how they are really…

Continue ReadingEpisode 266 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 2
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Episode 265 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 1

  • Post published:May 19, 2023

This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot…

Continue ReadingEpisode 265 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 1
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Episode 264 – Igniting Passion In Your Sex Life

  • Post published:May 12, 2023

Have you noticed that the passion in your sex life has disappeared? It’s time to ignite it again, don’t you think? I was recently on Ashlee Sorenson’s podcast called A…

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What is sex?

Episode 263 – How Do You Define Sex?

  • Post published:May 5, 2023

Our definition of sex can really affect how much sex we’re getting. So, how do you define sex? Is sex just penetration and orgasm? Or are there other activities that…

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Episode 262 – Sleep Divorce

  • Post published:April 28, 2023

Have you heard about sleep divorce? "Sleep divorce" is a situation where couples sleep separately on a regular basis to improve their sleep quality due to issues like snoring, different…

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Episode 261 – Is Jealousy Good or Bad for a Marriage?

  • Post published:April 21, 2023

Have you ever been jealous in your relationship? Around 77% of people report feeling at least an occasional jealousy in their relationships. In this episode, we’re talking about jealousy and…

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Episode 260 – The Sexual Conditioning of Christian Men

  • Post published:April 14, 2023

Through my own experience and coaching women for five years, I have come to know what the sexual conditioning of women is in our Christian faith, and how to help…

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Episode 259 – How Body Image Affects Your Partner an Interview with Amber A Price

  • Post published:April 7, 2023

How does your body image affect your partner? That's what my guest Amber Price and I are talking about in this episode. Even though body image issues is something you…

Continue ReadingEpisode 259 – How Body Image Affects Your Partner an Interview with Amber A Price
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Episode 258 – The Top Reasons For Low Desire in Women

  • Post published:March 31, 2023

In this episode, we talk about the top 4 reasons for low desire in women that I see in my clients. I break down why women have low desire and…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 437 – Six Patterns That End Marriages

    After thousands of hours on Zoom with couples, I can usually tell by the second or third conversation which marriages are going to make it. It has almost nothing to do with the size of the problem. In this episode I walk through the six patterns I watch for, what each one sounds like on a call, and what to do if you see your own marriage in one of them. Recognizing one is not a verdict. It’s information you can work with.

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