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Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

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How to have a great Mother's Day no matter your situation.

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Read more about the article Episode 53 – Making Decisions

Episode 53 – Making Decisions

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In this episode we will discuss HOW to make a decision, why you make the decisions you do, and how to be confident in your decisions.

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Read more about the article Episode 52 – Celebrating Year One

Episode 52 – Celebrating Year One

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Celebrating the first year of episodes.

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Read more about the article Episode 51 – Curiosity

Episode 51 – Curiosity

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Do you find yourself saying “I don’t know” a lot?

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Read more about the article Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

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What does your inner dialogue sound like?

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Read more about the article Episode 49 – The Victim Mentality

Episode 49 – The Victim Mentality

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Are you stuck in a victim mentality?

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Read more about the article Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

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What can we choose to think and believe about our life when things are so different than what we wanted.

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Read more about the article Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

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Are you the higher desire partner in your relationship? In this episode, we discuss strategies to help you build the intimate relationship with your spouse that you’ve always wanted. Play…

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Read more about the article Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

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Your brain will find evidence of whatever it is you are looking for in your spouse and your marriage. So what are you looking for?

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Read more about the article Episode 45 – Reacting vs. Responding

Episode 45 – Reacting vs. Responding

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Often we react to situations in a split second.  We are not even conscious of the thoughts that drive our feelings and actions and we react to a situation poorly. …

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Read more about the article Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

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Why do we feel judged? Most of the time it’s a story we make up in our heads based on our insecurities. But what about when they actually say it? What do you do? In this podcast, we will address what judgment and criticism are, and what to do when you do feel you are being judged by others.

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Read more about the article Episode 43 – Needing Validation

Episode 43 – Needing Validation

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When we understand who we are and our unchanging worth, needing outside validation is no longer something we need or crave.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help

    What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it isn’t invited first, especially in conversations about sex and intimacy. I walk through how unsolicited feedback triggers defensiveness in our nervous systems, why both higher-desire and lower-desire spouses fall into this pattern, and how asking for consent before sharing can completely change the conversation. We’ll also talk about practical ways to create emotional safety, move from defensiveness to curiosity, and build a marriage where both people actually feel heard. Sometimes the smallest shift, simply asking “Can I?”, can open the door to the kind of connection you’ve been wanting all along.

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