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Read more about the article Episode 52 – Celebrating Year One

Episode 52 – Celebrating Year One

  • Post published:April 19, 2019

Celebrating the first year of episodes.

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Read more about the article Episode 51 – Curiosity

Episode 51 – Curiosity

  • Post published:April 12, 2019

Do you find yourself saying “I don’t know” a lot?

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Read more about the article Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

  • Post published:April 5, 2019

What does your inner dialogue sound like?

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Read more about the article Episode 49 – The Victim Mentality

Episode 49 – The Victim Mentality

  • Post published:March 29, 2019

Are you stuck in a victim mentality?

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Read more about the article Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

  • Post published:March 22, 2019

What can we choose to think and believe about our life when things are so different than what we wanted.

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Read more about the article Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

  • Post published:March 15, 2019

Are you the higher desire partner in your relationship? In this episode, we discuss strategies to help you build the intimate relationship with your spouse that you’ve always wanted. Play…

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Read more about the article Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

  • Post published:March 8, 2019

Your brain will find evidence of whatever it is you are looking for in your spouse and your marriage. So what are you looking for?

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Read more about the article Episode 45 – Reacting vs. Responding

Episode 45 – Reacting vs. Responding

  • Post published:March 1, 2019

Often we react to situations in a split second.  We are not even conscious of the thoughts that drive our feelings and actions and we react to a situation poorly. …

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Read more about the article Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

  • Post published:February 22, 2019

Why do we feel judged? Most of the time it’s a story we make up in our heads based on our insecurities. But what about when they actually say it? What do you do? In this podcast, we will address what judgment and criticism are, and what to do when you do feel you are being judged by others.

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Read more about the article Episode 43 – Needing Validation

Episode 43 – Needing Validation

  • Post published:February 15, 2019

When we understand who we are and our unchanging worth, needing outside validation is no longer something we need or crave.

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Read more about the article Episode 42 – Unconditional Love

Episode 42 – Unconditional Love

  • Post published:February 8, 2019

We don’t love other people because they deserve it, we love others because love feels amazing. It’s a gift we give ourselves.

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Read more about the article Episode 41 – Am I Being Abused?

Episode 41 – Am I Being Abused?

  • Post published:February 1, 2019

Some people want to be seen as victims so they claim they are abused. Others refuse to see the abuse because they don’t want to be a victim or they think the behavior is normal. So what is abuse? We will discuss it in detail in this episode.

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    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

    Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

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    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
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