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Episode 254 – How Can I Get My Wife to Develop Her Sexual-Self?

  • Post published:March 3, 2023
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How do I get my wife to develop her sexual self? That is probably one of the most common questions I get from husbands. This question makes the assumption that…

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Episode 253 – Consenting to Unwanted Sex: An Interview with Dr. Cami Hurst

  • Post published:February 24, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Cami Hurst about her research into consenting to unwanted sex. This research is ground breaking in understanding why so many middle aged women…

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Episode 252 – A Transactional versus Relational Marriage

  • Post published:February 17, 2023
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My clients often have transactional relationships with their spouses without even realizing it. In this episode, I want to explain what a transactional marriage is, why we don’t want it…

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Episode 251 – Empowered Sexuality

  • Post published:February 10, 2023
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What is empowerment? More importantly, how can we be sexually empowered? In this episode, we’re going to not only answer these questions, but also how to know if we are…

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Episode 250 – Becoming the Hero of Your Own Story: An Interview with Joey Mascio

  • Post published:February 3, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Joey Mascio. He is a fellow life coach and good friend who normally works with teens helping them become the hero of their own…

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Episode 249 – Overcoming Sexual Shame || Embracing You Teaser

  • Post published:January 27, 2023
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I’m excited to share with you a teaser for my new subscription podcast, Embracing You. In this Embracing You episode, I talk to Emily about how shame is affecting her…

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Episode 248 – Is Public Nudity Ok?

  • Post published:January 20, 2023
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DISCLAIMER: In this episode, we are discussing a clothing optional resort. When I originally interviewed this couple, I did not know which resort they went to. I've since learned that…

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Episode 247 – Enthusiastic Consent

  • Post published:January 13, 2023
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What is enthusiastic consent and why do we need to talk about it? That’s what we’re going to delve into in this episode. We have to enthusiastically consent to sex…

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Episode 246 – What is a Covenant Marriage? – An Interview with Aimée Gianni

  • Post published:January 6, 2023
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In this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. So often we stay in our broken marriages because we…

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Episode 245 – How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal Hansen

  • Post published:December 30, 2022
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In this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict actually builds intimacy in your marriage. I know this sounds…

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Episode 244 – How My Spouse’s Faith Journey Affected Our Sex Life – An Interview with Lisa Frehner

  • Post published:December 23, 2022
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Often in marriage, if there is disconnect in one part of the relationship, there is also disconnect in the bedroom. That’s how I came to know my guest today, Lisa.…

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Episode 243 – Masturbation Within Marriage

  • Post published:December 16, 2022
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My most downloaded podcast episode is #134 - Masturbation and the Church. I published this episode over 2 years ago and it’s still something I get asked about all of…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On

    What if the problem in your sex life isn’t really about sex at all? In this episode, I’m talking about emotional safety and the powerful role it plays in both your marriage and your sexual relationship. We’ll look at the patterns that slowly break down emotional safety, including criticism, defensiveness, dismissal, and shame, as well as what both partners can do to rebuild trust and connection. I’ll also help you recognize when you may be contributing to an emotionally unsafe environment and show you how curiosity, accountability, repair, and consistency can begin to change those patterns. Because the deepest intimacy happens when both partners feel safe enough to be fully known.

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