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Read more about the article Episode 102 – Building Intimacy During Isolation

Episode 102 – Building Intimacy During Isolation

  • Post published:April 3, 2020
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This is covering just about everything you might need right now.  I will be talking about managing our brains around the stress and anxiety you might be feeling, I will…

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Read more about the article Episode 101 – Sex Under Stress

Episode 101 – Sex Under Stress

  • Post published:March 27, 2020
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What is stress doing to your sex life? How can sex make you less stressed?

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Read more about the article Episode 100 – How Numbing Out is Hurting Your Sex Life

Episode 100 – How Numbing Out is Hurting Your Sex Life

  • Post published:March 20, 2020
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When you numb in one area, you numb in all...

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Read more about the article Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

  • Post published:March 13, 2020
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Are you touched-out?

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Read more about the article Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

  • Post published:March 6, 2020
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In this week's podcast, I tackle the subject of your sexuality.  What does it look like to you? What does it feel like? Our first impulse is to believe it…

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Read more about the article Episode  97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

Episode 97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

  • Post published:February 28, 2020
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An interview with Dr. Cameron Staley.

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Read more about the article Episode 96 – Let’s Talk About Lube

Episode 96 – Let’s Talk About Lube

  • Post published:February 21, 2020
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Do you use lube? There's a lot more to it than you might think!

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Read more about the article Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

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What excuses do you make to not have sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:February 7, 2020
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6 Principles of Healthy Sexuality and what a healthy relationship looks like.

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Read more about the article Episode 93 – Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew

Episode 93 – Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew

  • Post published:January 31, 2020
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Share this episode with your husband! It's for him!

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Read more about the article Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

  • Post published:January 24, 2020
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It's time to develop your erotic mind.

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Read more about the article Episode 91 – Keeping Your Husband Happy

Episode 91 – Keeping Your Husband Happy

  • Post published:January 17, 2020
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Are you trying to keep your husband happy but sex has become a chore?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help

    What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it isn’t invited first, especially in conversations about sex and intimacy. I walk through how unsolicited feedback triggers defensiveness in our nervous systems, why both higher-desire and lower-desire spouses fall into this pattern, and how asking for consent before sharing can completely change the conversation. We’ll also talk about practical ways to create emotional safety, move from defensiveness to curiosity, and build a marriage where both people actually feel heard. Sometimes the smallest shift, simply asking “Can I?”, can open the door to the kind of connection you’ve been wanting all along.

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    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
    June 19, 2026
    Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
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    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
    June 5, 2026
    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
    May 29, 2026
    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
    May 22, 2026
    Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
    May 15, 2026
    Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide
    May 8, 2026
    Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole
    May 1, 2026
    Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve
    April 24, 2026
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