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Read more about the article Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

  • Post published:December 27, 2019
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What do you want your sex life to look like in the New Year?

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Read more about the article Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

  • Post published:December 20, 2019
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So much of Christmas is focused around the kids, but don’t forget about creating memories and getting gifts for your spouse.

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Read more about the article Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

  • Post published:December 13, 2019
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What turns you on? What turns you off?

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Read more about the article Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

  • Post published:December 6, 2019
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Understanding the stages and knowing how your body responds helps you to see where you are and in what areas you might need a little help or to improve to create a fuller, richer experience and sex life.

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Read more about the article Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

  • Post published:November 29, 2019
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Why coaching is great for anyone at any level!

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Read more about the article Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

  • Post published:November 22, 2019
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Anything of value means you need to carve out time for it. What is getting in the way of your sexy time?

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Read more about the article Episode 82 – Sex Rules

Episode 82 – Sex Rules

  • Post published:November 15, 2019
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We all have rules and expectations with sex. Do you know yours?

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Read more about the article Episode 81 – Good Girl Syndrome

Episode 81 – Good Girl Syndrome

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Sexuality and Spirituality

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Read more about the article Episode 80 – How To Be Sexy

Episode 80 – How To Be Sexy

  • Post published:October 31, 2019
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How to be sexy and why that's ok!

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Read more about the article Episode 79 – Why I Believe

Episode 79 – Why I Believe

  • Post published:October 25, 2019
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My Testimony of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints

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Read more about the article Episode 78 – Guilt, Shame, and Eroticism

Episode 78 – Guilt, Shame, and Eroticism

  • Post published:October 18, 2019
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In a recent survey I conducted, 40% of married women said they feel guilt and shame about sex.  In this episode, we are addressing where this guilt and shame are…

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Read more about the article Episode 77 – Rejection

Episode 77 – Rejection

  • Post published:October 11, 2019
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Do you often reject your spouse’s advances for sex?  Do you feel rejected by them?  Rejection is a huge issue for many couples.  Find out why we feel rejected and…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy

    What if intimacy in your marriage didn’t actually depend on your spouse showing up first? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful shift that changes how we think about emotional connection and why so many relationships feel one-sided. We will talk about what intimacy really means and how you can choose to be knowable and curious about your partner, even when they’re not meeting you there. I will introduce the concept of self-validated intimacy and how it frees you from waiting on your spouse’s response to feel connected. We will also explore the role of reciprocity and why mutual intimacy is still the goal. If you’ve been feeling lonely in your marriage or wondering why your spouse won’t open up, this episode will help you see your next step more clearly.

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    Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?
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    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
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    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
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