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Episode 139 – Why You Need a Vibrator

  • Post published:December 18, 2020

Last week I discussed sex toys, but this week I am taking a deep dive into vibrators.  Did you know that most women need 45-60 minutes to move from 0…

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Sex Toys

Episode 138 – Sex Toys 101

  • Post published:December 11, 2020

I get a lot of questions concerning sex toys. What ones are best, are they appropriate, what materials should I be looking for. . and so much more.  Tune in…

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Touch

Episode 137 – The Five Gears of Touch

  • Post published:December 4, 2020

Today, I’m going to discuss the five gears of touch by Barry W. McCarthy - a certified sex and couples therapist.  Gear 1 begins with affectionate touch and gear 5…

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Willingness

Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020

When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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Episode 135 – Creating Intimacy After Betrayal

  • Post published:November 20, 2020

Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach and Darcy Spafford’s journey to regain intimacy after Zach’s 25 year battle with pornography. They will take you on a…

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Episode 134 – Masturbation and The Church

  • Post published:November 13, 2020

I know that this topic may be a controversial one. Let me start by saying, I am not the expert for your life. I am here to offer you new…

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Episode 133 – Competing Desires

  • Post published:November 6, 2020

 Does your spouse think he is not a priority in your life?  Could he be right?  Today I will dive into true desire and false desire and how to manage…

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babyloss

Episode 132 – Sex After Infant Loss

  • Post published:October 30, 2020

Today’s podcast looks at how to deal with grief, intimacy and fear after losing a baby.  My guest, Amy Watson, is a life coach who helps mom’s who have had…

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infertility

Episode 131 – Sex and Infertility

  • Post published:October 23, 2020

I am excited to spend some time today with Sadie Banks.  Sadie is a photographer and owner of “Good Grief” journals.  Her company was born in the midst of -…

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Episode 130 – Sex & Pregnancy

  • Post published:October 16, 2020

Pregnancy can be a magical time- but it can also be a scary time.  There are so many unexpected changes, added hormones and a changing body.  This can have an…

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Control

Episode 129 – The Truth About Control

  • Post published:October 9, 2020

Do you find yourself trying to be in control of situations or others? If you stop and question the emotion that is riding along with you. . .it is fear? …

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Reasons

Episode 128 – The Four Reasons Why We Have Sex

  • Post published:October 2, 2020

I think we have covered all the reasons we don’t want sex.  But have you ever wondered why people do have the desire for sex? It is more than for…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 439 – Why the Changes You Make Never Last

    Most couples who come to me have already tried. They have read the books, taken the courses, sat with a therapist, and walked out with a plan they both believed in. And it worked, for a few weeks, maybe a few months, before everything slid back to exactly where it was. In this episode I use an iceberg model I heard Brene Brown describe to explain why that keeps happening. The problem you can see is only the tip. Through the story of one couple who made the same plan five separate times, I walk down all four layers and show why the changes you make never last, and what actually has to shift for them to hold.

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