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Episode 145 – Codependency

  • Post published:January 29, 2021

Many of our marriage stories start out the same- but what happens after we say “I do?” That is where things can start to change.  You may have started to…

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men mistakes

Episode 144 – Five Mistakes Men Make In Bed

  • Post published:January 22, 2021

 Last week in the podcast, we discussed 5 mistakes women make in bed.  So today let’s chat about five mistakes for men.  Neither of you want to think about or…

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Episode 143 – Five Mistakes Women Make In Bed

  • Post published:January 15, 2021

Today I want to talk about the top 5 mistakes women make in bed, the reasons that keep them from getting aroused and enjoying sex to the fullest.  Join me…

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Madonna/Whore Complex

Episode 142 – The Madonna/Whore Complex

  • Post published:January 8, 2021

Why have many in the past believed and taught that it is impossible to be a sexual being and a loving and gentle wife and mother?  Freud believed you needed…

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Episode 141 – Sexual Maturity

  • Post published:January 1, 2021

Welcome to Live From Love and to 2021!  The podcast today is a great way to begin your year.  New thoughts, new ideas and new adventures in your marriage.  You…

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New Year

Episode 140 – Sexy New Year Replay

  • Post published:December 24, 2020

Welcome 2021!  This week for the podcast I am going back to the vault and bringing out one of my favorite podcasts - wrapped around goals and resolutions in your…

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vibrators

Episode 139 – Why You Need a Vibrator

  • Post published:December 18, 2020

Last week I discussed sex toys, but this week I am taking a deep dive into vibrators.  Did you know that most women need 45-60 minutes to move from 0…

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Sex Toys

Episode 138 – Sex Toys 101

  • Post published:December 11, 2020

I get a lot of questions concerning sex toys. What ones are best, are they appropriate, what materials should I be looking for. . and so much more.  Tune in…

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Touch

Episode 137 – The Five Gears of Touch

  • Post published:December 4, 2020

Today, I’m going to discuss the five gears of touch by Barry W. McCarthy - a certified sex and couples therapist.  Gear 1 begins with affectionate touch and gear 5…

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Willingness

Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020

When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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Episode 135 – Creating Intimacy After Betrayal

  • Post published:November 20, 2020

Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach and Darcy Spafford’s journey to regain intimacy after Zach’s 25 year battle with pornography. They will take you on a…

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Episode 134 – Masturbation and The Church

  • Post published:November 13, 2020

I know that this topic may be a controversial one. Let me start by saying, I am not the expert for your life. I am here to offer you new…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    Most couples can describe exactly what is wrong with their sex life. Ask them what they want instead, and the room goes quiet. This episode lays out what a healthy sexual relationship actually looks like, starting with six principles of sexual health as the bare minimum and then going well past them. You will hear why one-sided sex quietly wears a marriage down, what a real yes sounds like, why saying no should never cost you anything, and why being known by your spouse matters more than any technique. If nobody ever gave you a picture of what you are building toward, this episode gives you one.

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