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Episode 263 – How Do You Define Sex?

  • Post published:May 5, 2023
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Our definition of sex can really affect how much sex we’re getting. So, how do you define sex? Is sex just penetration and orgasm? Or are there other activities that…

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Episode 262 – Sleep Divorce

  • Post published:April 28, 2023
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Have you heard about sleep divorce? "Sleep divorce" is a situation where couples sleep separately on a regular basis to improve their sleep quality due to issues like snoring, different…

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Episode 261 – Is Jealousy Good or Bad for a Marriage?

  • Post published:April 21, 2023
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Have you ever been jealous in your relationship? Around 77% of people report feeling at least an occasional jealousy in their relationships. In this episode, we’re talking about jealousy and…

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Episode 260 – The Sexual Conditioning of Christian Men

  • Post published:April 14, 2023
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Through my own experience and coaching women for five years, I have come to know what the sexual conditioning of women is in our Christian faith, and how to help…

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Episode 259 – How Body Image Affects Your Partner an Interview with Amber A Price

  • Post published:April 7, 2023
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How does your body image affect your partner? That's what my guest Amber Price and I are talking about in this episode. Even though body image issues is something you…

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Episode 258 – The Top Reasons For Low Desire in Women

  • Post published:March 31, 2023
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In this episode, we talk about the top 4 reasons for low desire in women that I see in my clients. I break down why women have low desire and…

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Episode 257 – How Style Helps Your Confidence in the Bedroom – An Interview with Sheri Brasier

  • Post published:March 24, 2023
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In this episode, I’m talking to Sheri Brasier about how to gain more confidence in the bedroom. Sheri is a life and style coach which means that she empowers women…

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Episode 256 – How to Add Role-Play Into Your Sexual Repertoire

  • Post published:March 17, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Katie Runyan of Faithful Fling, a subscription role-playing website. We talk about how to easily add role-play into our marriages. This is such a…

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Path to Podcast Success

  • Post published:March 15, 2023
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I joined them on Path to Podcast Success, and you won’t want to miss our deep dive into all things entrepreneurship, podcasting, and business success. Get ready to take a…

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Joy in the Journey Podcast

  • Post published:March 15, 2023
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In this episode, we talk about love after divorce and how I found joy in the journey. Listen here.

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Episode 255 – Taking Things To The Next Level ||Embracing You! Teaser||

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Rather than dwelling on the questions your brain is offering to you, answer them. Thoughtfully think about them and answer them.  You have the answers already inside of you. I’m…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
    January 9, 2026
    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
    January 2, 2026
    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
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