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Sad couple after quarrel in bedroom

Episode 289 – Consequences of Sexual Accommodation

  • Post published:November 3, 2023
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I think we all want to have an intimate marriage, but we often miss one important step in achieving that. To have an intimate marriage, we must understand and make…

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The Mixed Faith Relationship Podcast

  • Post published:November 2, 2023
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I loved this discussion with Chris Rich! You can listen here.

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healthy eating

Episode 288 – How Your Eating Can Affect Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 27, 2023
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Have you ever thought about how food can affect your sex life? That’s what I’m discussing today with my guest and fellow life coach Lisa Salisbury. Thinking about what you…

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Eat Well, Think Well, Live Well Podcast

  • Post published:October 26, 2023
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We discuss why we would want to pay attention to our sexual lives. We discuss the anxiety reduction, confidence boosting, overall good feelings that healthy sexuality can produce.  While I…

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more exciting sex

Episode 287 – Overcoming Boredom in Sex

  • Post published:October 20, 2023
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Many women tell me that sex is boring for them, which is one of the reasons why they don’t have a strong desire for it.  No one craves boredom.  We…

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pornography myths

Episode 286 – Sexual Myths Learned From Porn

  • Post published:October 13, 2023
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The lack of sex education is a real issue in our country, so often people turn to pornography to learn about sex, which doesn’t actually help our understanding of sex…

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multiple orgasms

Episode 285 – How Women Can Have Multiple Orgasms

  • Post published:October 6, 2023
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Orgasms are an amazing experience! For most people, they are the most powerful feeling of pleasure available here on Earth. While men have a recovery period after orgasm, women do…

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Self Care Simplified Podcast

  • Post published:October 5, 2023
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I got to talk to Megan from Self Care Simplified Podcast. We talked all about how your sex life actually plays a vital role in your self-care.  Here are some…

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Parenting Passionately Podcast

  • Post published:October 2, 2023
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Sex in partnerships is often an overlooked subject- but something that affects every other aspect of our relationship too. How do we move past sexual shame and have a vibrant…

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Get Your Marriage On Podcast

  • Post published:October 2, 2023
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One of the paths to a stronger marriage is by doing the work necessary to have a great sex life as a couple. Why start with sex? It’s because there’s…

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other partners

Episode 284 – When Your Spouse Has Had Other Sexual Partners

  • Post published:September 29, 2023
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I often get asked by my clients what they can do if their spouse has had other sexual partners. While the reason behind this can vary, it often leaves the…

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sex while apart

Episode 283 – Maintaining a Great Sex Life While You Are Apart

  • Post published:September 22, 2023
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You’ve heard the old adage, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” right? While that can be true, being apart from your spouse can really affect your intimacy. So in this…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt

    What if the key to a more connected, nourishing sex life is simply slowing down? In this episode of Sex for Saints, I will talk with sex researcher Chelom Leavitt about sexual mindfulness, shame, emotional connection, and why so many women struggle to feel fully present in their sexuality. We will explore how curiosity and non-judgment can transform not only our sexual experiences, but also the way we relate to ourselves, our spouses, and even our faith. We’ll also discuss women’s arousal, emotional safety, vulnerability in marriage, and why slowing down may be one of the most healing things couples can do for intimacy.

    Here’s more information about Dr. Chelom Leavitt:

    Dr. Chelom Leavitt received her PhD from Penn State. She studies sexuality in committed relationships and examines how mindfulness during sex is associated with positive outcomes for men and women. Her recent publications include work on sexual mindfulness, how loneliness impacts relationships, forgiveness, infidelity, and men’s and women’s sexual response cycles and orgasm. Chelom is married to David Leavitt, and they have nine children.

    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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