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consumption vs connection

Therapy Brothers Podcast

  • Post published:July 16, 2024

In this great episode, I got to talk with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection in relationships. We explored how focusing on physical pleasure versus emotional…

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when sex is hard

Episode 325 – Why Sex Seems So Hard

  • Post published:July 12, 2024

In this episode, I want to talk about a question I get asked all of the time. It’s said in different ways, but it all comes down to this -…

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devices

Episode 324 – Are Devices Hurting Your Sex Life?

  • Post published:July 5, 2024

In this episode, I want to talk about something that is more and more relevant in our digital age - how devices are hurting marriages and sexual relationships. Because this…

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quality over quantity

Episode 323 – How Much Sex is Normal in Marriage?

  • Post published:June 28, 2024

This is something I get asked all the time! I understand why people want to know, but the answer isn’t so black and white. In this episode we’re going to…

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you are enough

Episode 322 – Feeling Like You Are Never Enough Sexually

  • Post published:June 21, 2024

Have you ever felt like you weren’t enough in your life? Most people do, but when that feeling creeps into the bedroom, it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Maybe…

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sexual martyrdom

Episode 321 – Sexual Martyrdom

  • Post published:June 14, 2024

In this episode, we are going to talk about a topic that’s all too common but not often discussed—sexual martyrdom in marriage. I’ll answer questions like: What does it mean…

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sex as a bandaid

Episode 320 – Using Sex As A Bandaid

  • Post published:June 7, 2024

A while ago, I was at an event with a lot of other women. A woman sat down next to me and asked, “What if the sex is really good,…

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managing your spouse

Episode 319 – Managing Your Spouse and their Sexuality

  • Post published:May 31, 2024

In this episode, we’re tackling a delicate and crucial topic: managing your spouse’s sexuality. What does this mean? Why do people do it? How does it affect both higher desire…

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perceptions

Episode 318 – The Sexual Stories That Hurt Our Relationship

  • Post published:May 24, 2024

When it comes to life, our perception is our reality. And these perceptions also shape our sexual relationships. Unfortunately, we often look at these perceptions as facts rather than realizing…

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quality of marriage

Episode 317 – Measuring the Quality of Our Marriage

  • Post published:May 17, 2024

We often check in with our finances, our physical health, or our mental health, so why not our relationship health? In this episode, we will talk about why we should…

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if you love me

Episode 316 – If You Love Me…

  • Post published:May 10, 2024

“If you love me…” I’ve been seeing this phrase thrown around quite a lot lately. My clients often tell me that their spouse has said, “If you love me, you’d…

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burden of initiating

Episode 315 – The Burden of Initiating

  • Post published:May 3, 2024

Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 447 – Getting Through the Holidays Without the Same Old Fights

    The holidays are supposed to bring us closer, and a lot of couples still know a fight is coming somewhere between Thanksgiving and New Year’s. This episode walks through the fights that show up again and again, from in-laws and whose family gets Christmas Eve to the mental load, money, and colliding traditions. It spends the most time on sex: what happens when you’re sleeping in his old bedroom with his parents on the other side of the wall, or sharing a hotel room with the kids. Using differentiation, the episode shows how to hold onto yourself and stay connected to your spouse and your family at the same time. Listen together and make a plan for before, during, and after the holidays.

    Episode 447 – Getting Through the Holidays Without the Same Old Fights
    Episode 447 – Getting Through the Holidays Without the Same Old Fights
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    Episode 446 – Is Sex an Obligation in Marriage?
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    Episode 445 – What a Healthy Sexual Relationship Actually Looks Like
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    Episode 444 – The Difference Between Being Wanted and Being Loved
    October 23, 2026
    Episode 443 – Do Men Just Want Sex for Pleasure?
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    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
    October 9, 2026
    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch
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    Episode 440 – Why Couples Stop Kissing and How to Revive It
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    Episode 439 – Why the Changes You Make Never Last
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    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
    September 11, 2026
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