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Read more about the article Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

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Are you touched-out?

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Read more about the article Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

  • Post published:March 6, 2020
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In this week's podcast, I tackle the subject of your sexuality.  What does it look like to you? What does it feel like? Our first impulse is to believe it…

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Read more about the article Episode  97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

Episode 97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

  • Post published:February 28, 2020
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An interview with Dr. Cameron Staley.

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Read more about the article Episode 96 – Let’s Talk About Lube

Episode 96 – Let’s Talk About Lube

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Do you use lube? There's a lot more to it than you might think!

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Read more about the article The Legit Motherhood Podcast

The Legit Motherhood Podcast

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  I was interview by Haili Murch for the This is Legit Motherhood podcast.  We discussed intimacy and sex after kids.  Listen here.

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Read more about the article The LDS Divorce Coach – Intimacy After Divorce

The LDS Divorce Coach – Intimacy After Divorce

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  I was interview by Emily Sanchez, an LDS Divorce Coach.  We discussed intimacy and sex when you are in between marriage an also once you are remarried.  Listen here.

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Read more about the article Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

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What excuses do you make to not have sex?

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The Doctor’s Wife Podcast

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  I was interview by fellow Life Coach, Sara Payne, on her podcast The Doctor's Wife.  Listen here.

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Read more about the article Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

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6 Principles of Healthy Sexuality and what a healthy relationship looks like.

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Read more about the article Episode 93 – Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew

Episode 93 – Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew

  • Post published:January 31, 2020
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Share this episode with your husband! It's for him!

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Read more about the article Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

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It's time to develop your erotic mind.

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Episode 91 – Keeping Your Husband Happy

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Are you trying to keep your husband happy but sex has become a chore?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

    In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts about a partner’s past aren’t really about what happened then, but about fear and insecurity now, and why no amount of details ever brings peace. We also look at the other side of the equation: carrying a past you never disclosed, how secrets quietly create distance, and how to thoughtfully decide whether disclosure is actually the right step. Throughout the episode, I separate repentance before God from emotional healing in marriage, and explain why believing in the Atonement doesn’t mean you’re required to feel nothing. This episode is for anyone struggling with jealousy, rumination, moral superiority, or the weight of an unresolved sexual past in a faith-based marriage.

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