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Episode 108 – Anxiety and Sex

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What is anxiety?  What does it look like?  How is it affecting your life - your partners life? In Podcast #108 I will take a look at anxiety and the…

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Read more about the article Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

Episode 107 – Uncertainty & Unmet Expectations

  • Post published:May 8, 2020
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I am stepping out of my sexuality niche for just a minute on today’s podcast.  Episode  #107 is all about your thoughts.  I will discuss your higher and lower brain,…

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Read more about the article Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

Episode 106 – Expanding Your Sexual Palette

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How do you know what kinds of foods you like? You try them - right? The same goes for your sexual experiences.  This week on the podcast I may challenge…

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Read more about the article Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

Episode 105 – Sexual Anorexia

  • Post published:April 24, 2020
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Join me this week as I take you on a little journey of comparisons. . .with food.    Each of us wants and needs a healthy relationship with food - …

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Read more about the article Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

Episode 104 – Am I Desirable?

  • Post published:April 17, 2020
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Is the desire for your spouse gone - or maybe it’s the other way around? Are there parts of your human imperfect self that you do not desire and would rather…

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Read more about the article Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

Episode 103 – A Marriage Made Whole: An Interview with Jeff and Joy

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An amazing interview with one of my clients and her journey to embracing her sexuality.

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Read more about the article Episode 102 – Building Intimacy During Isolation

Episode 102 – Building Intimacy During Isolation

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This is covering just about everything you might need right now.  I will be talking about managing our brains around the stress and anxiety you might be feeling, I will…

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Read more about the article Episode 101 – Sex Under Stress

Episode 101 – Sex Under Stress

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What is stress doing to your sex life? How can sex make you less stressed?

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Read more about the article Episode 100 – How Numbing Out is Hurting Your Sex Life

Episode 100 – How Numbing Out is Hurting Your Sex Life

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When you numb in one area, you numb in all...

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Read more about the article Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

Episode 99 – The Importance of Touch

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Are you touched-out?

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Read more about the article Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

Episode 98 – Embracing Your Sexuality

  • Post published:March 6, 2020
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In this week's podcast, I tackle the subject of your sexuality.  What does it look like to you? What does it feel like? Our first impulse is to believe it…

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Read more about the article Episode  97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

Episode 97 – My Spouse Looks at Pornography

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An interview with Dr. Cameron Staley.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in marriage. I walk you through how learning your own body is essential before you can share that knowledge with your spouse, and how this experience becomes one of the clearest ways to show each other what actually feels good. We will dive into the vulnerability that comes with being seen in your own pleasure, and why that vulnerability is often what creates deeper emotional and sexual connection. I will also cover the importance of consent, communication, and when this might not be the right fit for every couple. If you’re looking to move away from performance-based sex and toward something more authentic and connected, this episode will give you a whole new perspective.

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