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Read more about the article Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

  • Post published:July 12, 2019
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Find out how you can make sex better for you on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 63  – Wanting More From Your Spouse

Episode 63 – Wanting More From Your Spouse

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
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Why do we always want more than what we have? What happens when we get it?

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Read more about the article Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

  • Post published:June 28, 2019
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In today’s podcast, we discuss how learning to accept your spouse and loving them for who they are actually feels so much better and sets you free.

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Read more about the article Episode 61  – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

Episode 61 – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

  • Post published:June 21, 2019
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How does confidence or the lack thereof show up in your marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

  • Post published:June 14, 2019
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We most often associate the Law of Chastity with the youth or young single adults. But, as married couples, the Law of Chastity still very much applies to us.

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Read more about the article Episode 59 – Self Regulation

Episode 59 – Self Regulation

  • Post published:June 7, 2019
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How will regulating myself help my marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 58  – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

Episode 58 – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

  • Post published:May 31, 2019
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Want to know the secrets of how to create an amazing marriage? Find out how!

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Read more about the article Episode 57  – Believing New Thoughts

Episode 57 – Believing New Thoughts

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A belief is just a thought you’ve practiced a lot.  It’s one you accept as truth.  But you can choose to believe whatever you want about yourself, your life, and…

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Read more about the article Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

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What should do you do about those pesky thoughts that just keep coming up?

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Episode 55 – The “What If” Game

  • Post published:May 10, 2019
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Do you worry? In this episode, we talk about a little game I like to play that helps your brain see there is nothing to worry about after all.

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Read more about the article Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

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How to have a great Mother's Day no matter your situation.

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Read more about the article Episode 53 – Making Decisions

Episode 53 – Making Decisions

  • Post published:April 26, 2019
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In this episode we will discuss HOW to make a decision, why you make the decisions you do, and how to be confident in your decisions.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

    In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in marriage. I walk you through how learning your own body is essential before you can share that knowledge with your spouse, and how this experience becomes one of the clearest ways to show each other what actually feels good. We will dive into the vulnerability that comes with being seen in your own pleasure, and why that vulnerability is often what creates deeper emotional and sexual connection. I will also cover the importance of consent, communication, and when this might not be the right fit for every couple. If you’re looking to move away from performance-based sex and toward something more authentic and connected, this episode will give you a whole new perspective.

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