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Episode 51 – Curiosity

  • Post published:April 12, 2019
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Do you find yourself saying “I don’t know” a lot?

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Read more about the article Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

  • Post published:April 5, 2019
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What does your inner dialogue sound like?

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Read more about the article Episode 49 – The Victim Mentality

Episode 49 – The Victim Mentality

  • Post published:March 29, 2019
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Are you stuck in a victim mentality?

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Read more about the article Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

  • Post published:March 22, 2019
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What can we choose to think and believe about our life when things are so different than what we wanted.

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Wilted Flower (Part 2)

  • Post published:March 21, 2019
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I’ve often written and spoken about how lost I was when I was married to my first husband. In my post yesterday I talked about being a wilted flower. A…

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Wilted Flower

  • Post published:March 20, 2019
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When I was a teenager I was vibrant, a high-achiever, confident, and wouldn’t let anything stop me. Fast forward to my late 20s and I was an empty shell. There…

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Read more about the article Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

  • Post published:March 15, 2019
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Are you the higher desire partner in your relationship? In this episode, we discuss strategies to help you build the intimate relationship with your spouse that you’ve always wanted. Play…

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3 in 30 Podcast

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I was interviewed by Rachel of 3 in 30 Takeaways For Moms Podcast.  It was a great interview on step-parenting!

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Read more about the article Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

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Your brain will find evidence of whatever it is you are looking for in your spouse and your marriage. So what are you looking for?

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Read more about the article Episode 45 – Reacting vs. Responding

Episode 45 – Reacting vs. Responding

  • Post published:March 1, 2019
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Often we react to situations in a split second.  We are not even conscious of the thoughts that drive our feelings and actions and we react to a situation poorly. …

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Read more about the article Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

Episode 44 – Judgment & Criticism

  • Post published:February 22, 2019
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Why do we feel judged? Most of the time it’s a story we make up in our heads based on our insecurities. But what about when they actually say it? What do you do? In this podcast, we will address what judgment and criticism are, and what to do when you do feel you are being judged by others.

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Episode 43 – Needing Validation

  • Post published:February 15, 2019
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When we understand who we are and our unchanging worth, needing outside validation is no longer something we need or crave.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex

    In this episode, I’m talking about the lies your brain tells you about sex and how those thoughts quietly sabotage connection in your marriage. I explain why your brain is wired to see sexual vulnerability as a threat, how past experiences and conditioning shape the stories you believe, and why those stories feel so true even when they aren’t. We look at the specific lies that tend to show up for both higher-desire and lower-desire partners, and how those patterns keep couples stuck in fear, shame, and disconnection. I also share practical ways to recognize when your brain is lying, how to question those thoughts without judging yourself, and how curiosity can open the door to real intimacy again. If sex feels complicated, heavy, or confusing in your marriage, this episode will help you understand what’s actually happening and how to move forward with more clarity and compassion.

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