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Read more about the article Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

  • Post published:July 12, 2019
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Find out how you can make sex better for you on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 63  – Wanting More From Your Spouse

Episode 63 – Wanting More From Your Spouse

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
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Why do we always want more than what we have? What happens when we get it?

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Read more about the article Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

  • Post published:June 28, 2019
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In today’s podcast, we discuss how learning to accept your spouse and loving them for who they are actually feels so much better and sets you free.

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Read more about the article Episode 61  – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

Episode 61 – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

  • Post published:June 21, 2019
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How does confidence or the lack thereof show up in your marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

  • Post published:June 14, 2019
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We most often associate the Law of Chastity with the youth or young single adults. But, as married couples, the Law of Chastity still very much applies to us.

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Read more about the article Episode 59 – Self Regulation

Episode 59 – Self Regulation

  • Post published:June 7, 2019
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How will regulating myself help my marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 58  – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

Episode 58 – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

  • Post published:May 31, 2019
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Want to know the secrets of how to create an amazing marriage? Find out how!

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Read more about the article Episode 57  – Believing New Thoughts

Episode 57 – Believing New Thoughts

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A belief is just a thought you’ve practiced a lot.  It’s one you accept as truth.  But you can choose to believe whatever you want about yourself, your life, and…

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Read more about the article Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

  • Post published:May 17, 2019
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What should do you do about those pesky thoughts that just keep coming up?

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Episode 55 – The “What If” Game

  • Post published:May 10, 2019
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Do you worry? In this episode, we talk about a little game I like to play that helps your brain see there is nothing to worry about after all.

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Read more about the article Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

  • Post published:May 3, 2019
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How to have a great Mother's Day no matter your situation.

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Episode 53 – Making Decisions

  • Post published:April 26, 2019
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In this episode we will discuss HOW to make a decision, why you make the decisions you do, and how to be confident in your decisions.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating

    How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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