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role-play

Episode 256 – How to Add Role-Play Into Your Sexual Repertoire

  • Post published:March 17, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Katie Runyan of Faithful Fling, a subscription role-playing website. We talk about how to easily add role-play into our marriages. This is such a…

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Episode 255 – Taking Things To The Next Level ||Embracing You! Teaser||

  • Post published:March 10, 2023
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Rather than dwelling on the questions your brain is offering to you, answer them. Thoughtfully think about them and answer them.  You have the answers already inside of you. I’m…

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sexual self

Episode 254 – How Can I Get My Wife to Develop Her Sexual-Self?

  • Post published:March 3, 2023
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How do I get my wife to develop her sexual self? That is probably one of the most common questions I get from husbands. This question makes the assumption that…

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Episode 253 – Consenting to Unwanted Sex: An Interview with Dr. Cami Hurst

  • Post published:February 24, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Cami Hurst about her research into consenting to unwanted sex. This research is ground breaking in understanding why so many middle aged women…

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Episode 252 – A Transactional versus Relational Marriage

  • Post published:February 17, 2023
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My clients often have transactional relationships with their spouses without even realizing it. In this episode, I want to explain what a transactional marriage is, why we don’t want it…

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Episode 251 – Empowered Sexuality

  • Post published:February 10, 2023
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What is empowerment? More importantly, how can we be sexually empowered? In this episode, we’re going to not only answer these questions, but also how to know if we are…

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thought work

Episode 250 – Becoming the Hero of Your Own Story: An Interview with Joey Mascio

  • Post published:February 3, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Joey Mascio. He is a fellow life coach and good friend who normally works with teens helping them become the hero of their own…

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Episode 249 – Overcoming Sexual Shame || Embracing You Teaser

  • Post published:January 27, 2023
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I’m excited to share with you a teaser for my new subscription podcast, Embracing You. In this Embracing You episode, I talk to Emily about how shame is affecting her…

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Episode 247 – Enthusiastic Consent

  • Post published:January 13, 2023
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What is enthusiastic consent and why do we need to talk about it? That’s what we’re going to delve into in this episode. We have to enthusiastically consent to sex…

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Episode 246 – What is a Covenant Marriage? – An Interview with Aimée Gianni

  • Post published:January 6, 2023
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In this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. So often we stay in our broken marriages because we…

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Episode 245 – How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal Hansen

  • Post published:December 30, 2022
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In this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict actually builds intimacy in your marriage. I know this sounds…

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Episode 244 – How My Spouse’s Faith Journey Affected Our Sex Life – An Interview with Lisa Frehner

  • Post published:December 23, 2022
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Often in marriage, if there is disconnect in one part of the relationship, there is also disconnect in the bedroom. That’s how I came to know my guest today, Lisa.…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire

    Many women assume their lack of desire means something is wrong with them, but in this episode, I am going to explain that the real issue is often passive sexuality. We’ll explore the difference between waiting for a spouse to create desire and actively engaging with your own sexuality. Through stories from real clients, I’ll show how small shifts, like noticing attraction, savoring memories of intimacy, or anticipating connection, can gradually change how you experience your sexual relationship. I will also connect this idea to the principle of agency, reminding us that sexuality in marriage is something we can actively cultivate. By moving from passive to active sexuality, couples can experience deeper connection, more engagement, and a renewed sense of ownership in their intimate relationship.

    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
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    Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?
    March 6, 2026
    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
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