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Episode 158 – Sexual Scarcity

  • Post published:April 30, 2021
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When something is scarce, you want it more! (Remember the toilet paper shortage of 2020?) So what does this have to do with sex and marriage? When you’re not having…

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TRANSACTIONAL SEX

Episode 157 – Transactional Sex

  • Post published:April 23, 2021
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What exactly is transactional sex?  The idea that your relationship could include this type of sex is probably something you may not even be aware of - but there’s definitely…

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Episode 156 – The Disappearing Orgasm

  • Post published:April 16, 2021
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Episode 155 – Vacation Sex

  • Post published:April 9, 2021
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Whether you are in a tropical location, exploring a new city, or tucked away somewhere remote, time out of your usual routine is so good for the mind, body, and…

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Episode 154 – Adding Fun and Variety To Your Sex Life

  • Post published:April 2, 2021
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I am so excited for the podcast today. I will be joined by Dan Purcell. He and his wife Emily are the founders of “Get Your Marriage On.”  Dan is…

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Episode 153 – Sexual Feasts, Famines, and Snacks

  • Post published:March 26, 2021
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When it comes to sex, sometimes you want a feast, sometimes you want a snack, and sometimes you go through periods of famine.  And today I am going to jump…

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Episode 152 – How The Vagina and the Voice Are Connected

  • Post published:March 19, 2021
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Last year I had the opportunity to hear Stephanie Sorensen speak at a sexual education event.  I found myself completely fascinated and furiously taking notes. Today she will share many…

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Episode 151 – Speaking Your Truth

  • Post published:March 12, 2021
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Did you know we all tell ourselves lies as a way to protect ourselves?  On the podcast I am talking about what those lies look like in different aspects of…

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Episode 150 – The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction

  • Post published:March 5, 2021
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According to the Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction there are 3 positive. . .and 3 negative levels of sex in a partnership. Today I will go into each level with…

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Episode 149 – The Hard Work of Marriage

  • Post published:February 26, 2021
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We have all heard or lived through the phrase that marriage is hard work.  Today I am digging into why it is hard, why it requires so much work.  The…

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Episode 148 – Sex and Chronic Pain or Illness

  • Post published:February 19, 2021
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Episode 147 – 10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship

  • Post published:February 12, 2021
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What does a healthy relationship look like?  Today I will give you ten warning signs that you may need to examine.  You may need to get some help or even…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?

    I want to talk about why sex can feel draining instead of connecting, even when it’s happening regularly, and how that disconnect quietly impacts a marriage. What does nourishing sex actually look like and why does obligation, performance, and one-sided dynamics make intimacy feel heavy instead of life-giving? Through real client stories, I will break down how emotional safety, presence, and mutual desire change both the individual and the relationship experience of sex. With my normal directness, I will share practical ways couples can begin shifting from sex that depletes to sex that genuinely feeds connection. This conversation is about creating intimacy that both partners look forward to, not endure. You’re going to love it.

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