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Touch

Episode 137 – The Five Gears of Touch

  • Post published:December 4, 2020
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Today, I’m going to discuss the five gears of touch by Barry W. McCarthy - a certified sex and couples therapist.  Gear 1 begins with affectionate touch and gear 5…

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Episode 136 – Willingness Is The Entry Point

  • Post published:November 27, 2020
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When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and…

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Episode 135 – Creating Intimacy After Betrayal

  • Post published:November 20, 2020
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Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach and Darcy Spafford’s journey to regain intimacy after Zach’s 25 year battle with pornography. They will take you on a…

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Episode 134 – Masturbation and The Church

  • Post published:November 13, 2020
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Episode 133 – Competing Desires

  • Post published:November 6, 2020
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 Does your spouse think he is not a priority in your life?  Could he be right?  Today I will dive into true desire and false desire and how to manage…

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Episode 132 – Sex After Infant Loss

  • Post published:October 30, 2020
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Today’s podcast looks at how to deal with grief, intimacy and fear after losing a baby.  My guest, Amy Watson, is a life coach who helps mom’s who have had…

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Episode 131 – Sex and Infertility

  • Post published:October 23, 2020
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I am excited to spend some time today with Sadie Banks.  Sadie is a photographer and owner of “Good Grief” journals.  Her company was born in the midst of -…

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Episode 130 – Sex & Pregnancy

  • Post published:October 16, 2020
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Pregnancy can be a magical time- but it can also be a scary time.  There are so many unexpected changes, added hormones and a changing body.  This can have an…

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Episode 129 – The Truth About Control

  • Post published:October 9, 2020
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Do you find yourself trying to be in control of situations or others? If you stop and question the emotion that is riding along with you. . .it is fear? …

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Episode 128 – The Four Reasons Why We Have Sex

  • Post published:October 2, 2020
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I think we have covered all the reasons we don’t want sex.  But have you ever wondered why people do have the desire for sex? It is more than for…

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Episode 127 – The Power of Connection – An Interview with Anjanette Ludwig

  • Post published:September 25, 2020
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Today I am so excited to welcome Anjanette Ludwig to my podcast.  Anjanette is an amazing life coach helping moms and teens connect.  She is the life coach I hired…

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Episode 126 – Sexual Communication – Part 2

  • Post published:September 18, 2020
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Welcome to Sexual Communication Part 2.  Let's get back to where we left off last week.  Today I will share the very first communication skill you need in your marriage.…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    Have you ever wondered why you can feel like a totally different person during sex than afterward? In this episode, I break down what’s actually happening in your brain before, during, and after intimacy, and why it matters for your sex life. I’ll show you how your neurobiology impacts desire, openness, and connection, and how you can use that knowledge to feel more present, communicate better, and stop judging yourself for normal responses. If you’ve ever been confused about why you or your partner seem “on different pages,” this conversation will make so much sense.

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