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Episode 214 – What We Chase Will Run

  • Post published:May 27, 2022

My clients often say that they don’t communicate well with their husbands, but actually, we as humans are really good at communicating. In fact, only about 7% of communication is…

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Episode 213 – Disgusted by Bodily Fluids

  • Post published:May 20, 2022

Are you disgusted by the bodily fluids of your partner? Maybe you’re disgusted by your own bodily fluids. If so, you are not alone. Many people feel this way. I…

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Episode 212 – Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection

  • Post published:May 13, 2022

Has sex become boring for you? Do you not want to have sex? Maybe you’re not having sex because there are so many other things that get in the way.…

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Episode 211 – Becoming a Peacemaker in Your Sex Life: An Interview with Jessica Farmer

  • Post published:May 6, 2022

In this episode, I’m talking with Jessica Farmer, a fellow life coach and friend, about how she went from being a peacekeeper to a peacemaker in her life and her…

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Episode 210 – Blue Balls & Blue Beans

  • Post published:April 29, 2022

Are you reluctant to show any affection towards your husband because then he’ll want sex and you’ll have to give it to him? Maybe you’ve been told that when your…

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Episode 209 – Sexual Barometers

  • Post published:April 22, 2022

One of the questions I see the most in Facebook groups I follow is, “How do I know if my partner is turned on?” But I think that what they…

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Episode 208 – The Lie of “Happy Wife, Happy Life”: An Interview with Glenn Lovelace

  • Post published:April 15, 2022

We’ve all heard the phrase, “Happy Wife, Happy Life,” but my guest today, Glenn Lovelace, says that’s a lie. Listen to this episode to find out why he thinks it’s…

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Episode 207 – Creating Safety In Sex

  • Post published:April 8, 2022

I recently watched a ‘horse whisper’ do a lay down with a horse. If you’ve never seen this process, it is amazing! But unlike horses, who constantly think, “Am I…

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Episode 206 – Sex Before Marriage: Single Adults

  • Post published:April 1, 2022

I get asked a lot about the rules of sex before marriage when you’re adult. Are they the same as when you’re a teenager? The answer is harder than a…

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Episode 205 – Sex Before Marriage: Talking to Your Teens

  • Post published:March 25, 2022

I get asked a lot about how to talk to kids and teens about sex. Unfortunately, I can’t make it less awkward for you, though if you’re comfortable with your…

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Episode 204 – Kink And BDSM – An Interview with Allen Turner

  • Post published:March 18, 2022

In part 2 of my interview with Allen Turner, let’s talk about kink and BDSM. I know those can be scary words, even Allen admits to being put off by…

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Episode 203 – What Women Really Want In Bed – An Interview with Allen Turner

  • Post published:March 11, 2022

In this episode, I’m interviewing Allen Turner about what women really want in bed. Allen shares his perspective as a man, a life-long member of the Church of Jesus Christ…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want

    Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership.

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