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triggers

Episode 273 – Overcoming Triggers – An Interview with Crystal Haitsma

  • Post published:July 14, 2023
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In this podcast, I’m talking with Crystal Haitsma about triggers. We hear the word all the time nowadays, but what does it really mean and how is it affecting our…

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Episode 272 – Decision Not Desire

  • Post published:July 7, 2023
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So many women I’ve talked to have said that they don’t have any desire to have sex anymore. It’s just gone. Now, I’ve talked about desire a lot on this…

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Episode 271 – Not Liking the Sex You’re Having ||Embracing You Teaser||

  • Post published:June 30, 2023
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Do you not like sex or do you just not like the sex that you're having? Oftentimes, we actually just don't like the sex that we're having. Listen to this…

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Episode 270 – Sexual Compatibility

  • Post published:June 23, 2023
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Do you worry that you aren’t sexually compatible with your spouse? I think truly being sexually incompatible is rare. But in this episode, we talk about those questions you may…

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Episode 269 – Emotional or Physical Intimacy First?

  • Post published:June 16, 2023
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One of the most common disagreements I hear from couples about sex are about emotional and physical intimacy and which goes first. In my mind, it looks a lot like…

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Episode 268 – Affection Without Expectation

  • Post published:June 9, 2023
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When I was first married to my first husband, it felt like he ALWAYS wanted sex. If I showed him any affection at all, it had to lead to sex.…

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Episode 267 – Sexual Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning

  • Post published:June 2, 2023
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Let me ask you a question. Are you overfunctioning or underfunctioning in your sexual relationship with your spouse? Taking a look at yourself and honestly answering this question can help…

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Believing you ARE a Good Mom Podcast

  • Post published:June 1, 2023
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I was interviewed by Emily Wardrop of Believe you ARE a Good Mom podcast. We talked about how sex is for YOU even when your kids are young. Listen here. 

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Episode 266 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 2

  • Post published:May 26, 2023
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This is part two of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. This week we’re talking more about our young adults and how they are really…

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Episode 265 – The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships – Pt. 1

  • Post published:May 19, 2023
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This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot…

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Overcome Pornography for Good Podcast

  • Post published:May 16, 2023
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Many of us have received the conditioning that men are typically the sexual ones in a relationship and that they have an insatiable sexual need that has to be satisfied.…

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Episode 264 – Igniting Passion In Your Sex Life

  • Post published:May 12, 2023
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Have you noticed that the passion in your sex life has disappeared? It’s time to ignite it again, don’t you think? I was recently on Ashlee Sorenson’s podcast called A…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
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    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
    January 9, 2026
    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
    January 2, 2026
    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
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