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Episode 254 – How Can I Get My Wife to Develop Her Sexual-Self?

  • Post published:March 3, 2023
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How do I get my wife to develop her sexual self? That is probably one of the most common questions I get from husbands. This question makes the assumption that…

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Episode 253 – Consenting to Unwanted Sex: An Interview with Dr. Cami Hurst

  • Post published:February 24, 2023
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Cami Hurst about her research into consenting to unwanted sex. This research is ground breaking in understanding why so many middle aged women…

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Episode 252 – A Transactional versus Relational Marriage

  • Post published:February 17, 2023
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My clients often have transactional relationships with their spouses without even realizing it. In this episode, I want to explain what a transactional marriage is, why we don’t want it…

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LDS Confessions Podcast

  • Post published:February 15, 2023
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In this episode, I talk about different things couples can do to improve their sex lives. We discussed good orgasms, sex toys and how to communicate with our partners. Listen here.

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Episode 251 – Empowered Sexuality

  • Post published:February 10, 2023
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What is empowerment? More importantly, how can we be sexually empowered? In this episode, we’re going to not only answer these questions, but also how to know if we are…

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Episode 250 – Becoming the Hero of Your Own Story: An Interview with Joey Mascio

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In this episode, I’m speaking with Joey Mascio. He is a fellow life coach and good friend who normally works with teens helping them become the hero of their own…

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January 2023

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Episode 249 – Overcoming Sexual Shame || Embracing You Teaser

  • Post published:January 27, 2023
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I’m excited to share with you a teaser for my new subscription podcast, Embracing You. In this Embracing You episode, I talk to Emily about how shame is affecting her…

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Table Talk for Moms Podcast

  • Post published:January 17, 2023
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In this episode, I talk about how I know how difficult it can be to find confidence as a wife and mother, and I share all of the tips and…

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Episode 247 – Enthusiastic Consent

  • Post published:January 13, 2023
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What is enthusiastic consent and why do we need to talk about it? That’s what we’re going to delve into in this episode. We have to enthusiastically consent to sex…

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Love Tidbits Podcast

  • Post published:January 6, 2023
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Listen in as LeAnn Austin and I discuss why love is the basis of all I do in my coaching and what we should base our lives on. Listen here.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
    January 9, 2026
    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
    January 2, 2026
    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
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