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Episode 209 – Sexual Barometers

  • Post published:April 22, 2022
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One of the questions I see the most in Facebook groups I follow is, “How do I know if my partner is turned on?” But I think that what they…

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Episode 208 – The Lie of “Happy Wife, Happy Life”: An Interview with Glenn Lovelace

  • Post published:April 15, 2022
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We’ve all heard the phrase, “Happy Wife, Happy Life,” but my guest today, Glenn Lovelace, says that’s a lie. Listen to this episode to find out why he thinks it’s…

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The Cut the Chaos Podcast with Sandra Jarvis

  • Post published:April 11, 2022
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I got to be a guest on The Cut the Chaos Podcast. We discussed the thought, "I do it for him," and why this is such a harmful thought for…

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Episode 207 – Creating Safety In Sex

  • Post published:April 8, 2022
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I recently watched a ‘horse whisper’ do a lay down with a horse. If you’ve never seen this process, it is amazing! But unlike horses, who constantly think, “Am I…

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Episode 206 – Sex Before Marriage: Single Adults

  • Post published:April 1, 2022
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I get asked a lot about the rules of sex before marriage when you’re adult. Are they the same as when you’re a teenager? The answer is harder than a…

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Episode 205 – Sex Before Marriage: Talking to Your Teens

  • Post published:March 25, 2022
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I get asked a lot about how to talk to kids and teens about sex. Unfortunately, I can’t make it less awkward for you, though if you’re comfortable with your…

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Episode 204 – Kink And BDSM – An Interview with Allen Turner

  • Post published:March 18, 2022
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In part 2 of my interview with Allen Turner, let’s talk about kink and BDSM. I know those can be scary words, even Allen admits to being put off by…

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Episode 203 – What Women Really Want In Bed – An Interview with Allen Turner

  • Post published:March 11, 2022
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In this episode, I’m interviewing Allen Turner about what women really want in bed. Allen shares his perspective as a man, a life-long member of the Church of Jesus Christ…

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The Culture Hall Podcast

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I got to be a guest on The Culture Hall Podcast and share some things that I have come to know about our Heavenly Parents through my work. Listen here.

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The Friendly Podcast Guide

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I got to be a guest on The Friendly Podcast Guide and share some behind the scenes about how The Sex for Saint podcast came to be. Listen here.

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Episode 202 – How Hormones Affect Your Libido: An Interview with Ashlee Sorensen

  • Post published:March 4, 2022
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Let’s talk hormones and what your hormones are doing to you sex drive! With my special guest, Ashlee Sorensen, we talk everything hormones and what we can expect as we…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t want, while her husband still feels unsatisfied. I’ll explain why orgasms aren’t the same thing as satisfaction, and how duty sex can actually block the connection both partners are craving. I’ll unpack how this pattern creates deep resentment for her, confusion for him, and eventually a crisis point that forces the relationship to change. I’ll also share what real repair can look like, how couples can move from obligation to genuine desire, and why quality and connection matter far more than frequency. This episode will be especially helpful for anyone who feels stuck in a painful sexual stalemate and wants clarity on what’s really going wrong and what healing could look like.

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