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Episode 212 – Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection

  • Post published:May 13, 2022
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Has sex become boring for you? Do you not want to have sex? Maybe you’re not having sex because there are so many other things that get in the way.…

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Episode 211 – Becoming a Peacemaker in Your Sex Life: An Interview with Jessica Farmer

  • Post published:May 6, 2022
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In this episode, I’m talking with Jessica Farmer, a fellow life coach and friend, about how she went from being a peacekeeper to a peacemaker in her life and her…

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Episode 210 – Blue Balls & Blue Beans

  • Post published:April 29, 2022
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Are you reluctant to show any affection towards your husband because then he’ll want sex and you’ll have to give it to him? Maybe you’ve been told that when your…

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Episode 209 – Sexual Barometers

  • Post published:April 22, 2022
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One of the questions I see the most in Facebook groups I follow is, “How do I know if my partner is turned on?” But I think that what they…

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Episode 208 – The Lie of “Happy Wife, Happy Life”: An Interview with Glenn Lovelace

  • Post published:April 15, 2022
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We’ve all heard the phrase, “Happy Wife, Happy Life,” but my guest today, Glenn Lovelace, says that’s a lie. Listen to this episode to find out why he thinks it’s…

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The Cut the Chaos Podcast with Sandra Jarvis

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I got to be a guest on The Cut the Chaos Podcast. We discussed the thought, "I do it for him," and why this is such a harmful thought for…

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Episode 207 – Creating Safety In Sex

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I recently watched a ‘horse whisper’ do a lay down with a horse. If you’ve never seen this process, it is amazing! But unlike horses, who constantly think, “Am I…

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Episode 206 – Sex Before Marriage: Single Adults

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I get asked a lot about the rules of sex before marriage when you’re adult. Are they the same as when you’re a teenager? The answer is harder than a…

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Episode 205 – Sex Before Marriage: Talking to Your Teens

  • Post published:March 25, 2022
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I get asked a lot about how to talk to kids and teens about sex. Unfortunately, I can’t make it less awkward for you, though if you’re comfortable with your…

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Episode 204 – Kink And BDSM – An Interview with Allen Turner

  • Post published:March 18, 2022
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In part 2 of my interview with Allen Turner, let’s talk about kink and BDSM. I know those can be scary words, even Allen admits to being put off by…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
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    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
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    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
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    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
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    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
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    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
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