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Episode 234 – When Kids Disrupt Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 14, 2022
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If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having sex, I would have added a lot to my piggy…

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Episode 233 – Your Sexual Prime

  • Post published:October 7, 2022
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I think it’s safe to say that we all want a great sex life. But most of us just don’t know how to get it! When we run into problems…

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A Bit Better Every Day with Ashlee Sorensen Podcast

  • Post published:October 3, 2022
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Listen in as my dear friend Ashlee and I have a  friendly and fun conversation about sex. Listen here.

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Episode 232 – I Don’t Care if I Ever Have Sex Again: A Conversation with Mike Frazier, MD

  • Post published:September 30, 2022
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In this episode I’m talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks when she says that she doesn’t care if she ever…

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Episode 231 – Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 23, 2022
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Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex is or that bad sex is better than no sex.…

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Sprinkled with Hope Podcast

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In this episode, we talked about how I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about sex, and I had a lot of shame around my sexuality and…

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Episode 230 – Sex Isn’t A Drive

  • Post published:September 16, 2022
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Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think…

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Episode 229 – Duty Sex

  • Post published:September 9, 2022
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What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it.…

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Episode 228 – Female Ejaculation

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One of the topics I get the most DMs about is female ejaculation. Either women who do it all the time and want to stop or women wanting to know…

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Episode 227 – How can I be Righteous and Sexual?

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I think most of us want to be righteous. We want to do what is right. But where is that line when it comes to sex in our marriages? That’s…

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    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder

    What if one of the most familiar teachings about sexuality deserves a second look? In this episode, I take a careful look at Alma 39 and the teaching that sexual sin is “next to murder,” exploring the historical origins of that interpretation, how it became so embedded in Latter-Day Saint culture, and why I believe the scripture may be saying something very different. I also discuss the lasting impact this belief has had on individuals and marriages, especially through shame and fear, and how a closer reading of the text can open the door to healing, healthier intimacy, and a more compassionate understanding of God. If this teaching has ever shaped the way you view yourself, your sexuality, or your marriage, I hope this episode gives you a new perspective to prayerfully consider.

    I would suggest that you listen to the first 3 episodes in this series before listening to this episode. You can find those here: 428, 429, and 430

    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
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    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
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    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
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    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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