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Episode 210 – Blue Balls & Blue Beans

  • Post published:April 29, 2022
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Are you reluctant to show any affection towards your husband because then he’ll want sex and you’ll have to give it to him? Maybe you’ve been told that when your…

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Episode 209 – Sexual Barometers

  • Post published:April 22, 2022
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One of the questions I see the most in Facebook groups I follow is, “How do I know if my partner is turned on?” But I think that what they…

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Episode 208 – The Lie of “Happy Wife, Happy Life”: An Interview with Glenn Lovelace

  • Post published:April 15, 2022
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We’ve all heard the phrase, “Happy Wife, Happy Life,” but my guest today, Glenn Lovelace, says that’s a lie. Listen to this episode to find out why he thinks it’s…

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The Cut the Chaos Podcast with Sandra Jarvis

  • Post published:April 11, 2022
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I got to be a guest on The Cut the Chaos Podcast. We discussed the thought, "I do it for him," and why this is such a harmful thought for…

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Episode 207 – Creating Safety In Sex

  • Post published:April 8, 2022
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I recently watched a ‘horse whisper’ do a lay down with a horse. If you’ve never seen this process, it is amazing! But unlike horses, who constantly think, “Am I…

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Episode 206 – Sex Before Marriage: Single Adults

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I get asked a lot about the rules of sex before marriage when you’re adult. Are they the same as when you’re a teenager? The answer is harder than a…

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Episode 205 – Sex Before Marriage: Talking to Your Teens

  • Post published:March 25, 2022
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I get asked a lot about how to talk to kids and teens about sex. Unfortunately, I can’t make it less awkward for you, though if you’re comfortable with your…

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Episode 204 – Kink And BDSM – An Interview with Allen Turner

  • Post published:March 18, 2022
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In part 2 of my interview with Allen Turner, let’s talk about kink and BDSM. I know those can be scary words, even Allen admits to being put off by…

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Episode 203 – What Women Really Want In Bed – An Interview with Allen Turner

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In this episode, I’m interviewing Allen Turner about what women really want in bed. Allen shares his perspective as a man, a life-long member of the Church of Jesus Christ…

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The Culture Hall Podcast

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I got to be a guest on The Culture Hall Podcast and share some things that I have come to know about our Heavenly Parents through my work. Listen here.

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The Friendly Podcast Guide

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I got to be a guest on The Friendly Podcast Guide and share some behind the scenes about how The Sex for Saint podcast came to be. Listen here.

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder

    What if one of the most familiar teachings about sexuality deserves a second look? In this episode, I take a careful look at Alma 39 and the teaching that sexual sin is “next to murder,” exploring the historical origins of that interpretation, how it became so embedded in Latter-Day Saint culture, and why I believe the scripture may be saying something very different. I also discuss the lasting impact this belief has had on individuals and marriages, especially through shame and fear, and how a closer reading of the text can open the door to healing, healthier intimacy, and a more compassionate understanding of God. If this teaching has ever shaped the way you view yourself, your sexuality, or your marriage, I hope this episode gives you a new perspective to prayerfully consider.

    I would suggest that you listen to the first 3 episodes in this series before listening to this episode. You can find those here: 428, 429, and 430

    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
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    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
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    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
    June 26, 2026
    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
    June 19, 2026
    Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
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    Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
    June 5, 2026
    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
    May 29, 2026
    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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