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​​Episode 218 – The Importance of Being Selfish

  • Post published:June 24, 2022

Do you think that your own desires are selfish? Most of us women do. We’ve been taught this by well meaning people either explicitly or implicitly. While our desires are…

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Episode 217 – Reclaiming Desire & Eros

  • Post published:June 17, 2022

Do you remember what it was like when you were dating your husband? Every touch was electric. You felt alive, maybe for the first time. That was eros energy. The…

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Episode 216 – CFM: Why is Chastity Important in God’s Plan?

  • Post published:June 10, 2022

There is a Come, Follow Me lesson coming up in the youth program about the Law of Chastity. I feel that we need to be careful when we’re teaching our…

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The Confident Mompreneur Podcast

  • Post published:June 7, 2022

In this episode, I talked with Kyrie from The Confident Mompreneur podcast about how to develop a better relationship with our sexuality by rebuilding our beliefs around sex, understanding how…

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Episode 215 – The Sexless Marriage

  • Post published:June 3, 2022

According to a survey, about 2% of marriages are completely sexless. Or, according to another study, couples are only having sex 10 times a year. Now, if 10 times a…

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May 2022

  • Post published:June 1, 2022

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Episode 214 – What We Chase Will Run

  • Post published:May 27, 2022

My clients often say that they don’t communicate well with their husbands, but actually, we as humans are really good at communicating. In fact, only about 7% of communication is…

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Episode 213 – Disgusted by Bodily Fluids

  • Post published:May 20, 2022

Are you disgusted by the bodily fluids of your partner? Maybe you’re disgusted by your own bodily fluids. If so, you are not alone. Many people feel this way. I…

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Co-Parenting with Confidence Podcast

  • Post published:May 18, 2022

I spoke with Mikki Gardner of the Co-Parenting with Confidence podcast. I shared with her the story of my marriage, divorce, co-parenting, and remarriage. Listen here.

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Episode 212 – Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection

  • Post published:May 13, 2022

Has sex become boring for you? Do you not want to have sex? Maybe you’re not having sex because there are so many other things that get in the way.…

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Episode 211 – Becoming a Peacemaker in Your Sex Life: An Interview with Jessica Farmer

  • Post published:May 6, 2022

In this episode, I’m talking with Jessica Farmer, a fellow life coach and friend, about how she went from being a peacekeeper to a peacemaker in her life and her…

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April 2022

  • Post published:April 29, 2022

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch

    The men in my comments say the same thing over and over. She was one way before the wedding and another way after, and they feel like they were sold something that never got delivered. Women tell me the same thing from the other direction. He wanted to know everything about her before marriage, and now the only time he comes looking for her is when he wants sex. Both of them believe they got the bait and switch, and both of them are partly right. In this episode we look at what actually changed, which is not the people and not the facts, but the meanings underneath them. The way out is not deciding who lied. It is getting curious about what all of this means to the person you married.

    Get the worksheet at: www.amandalouder.com/podcast/441/

    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch
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