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Episode 180 – The Good And Bad of Love Languages

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Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve heard about the 5 Love Languages and how you need to figure out what your spouse’s love language is and give them…

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Episode 179 – It Takes Too Long To Orgasm!

  • Post published:September 24, 2021
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Does your orgasm take too long? This is a complaint I hear all of the time from my clients. We as women are culturally trained that our needs are secondary…

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Episode 178 – It’s Okay That You Don’t Like Sex

  • Post published:September 17, 2021
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Did the title of this podcast surprise you? It surprises a lot of my clients too. But it actually makes a lot of sense that you don’t like sex. In…

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September 2021

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Episode 177 – Why Pleasure Matters

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I want to ask you a question. Are you afraid of pleasure? Maybe you're thinking, “Of course not! I find pleasure in my family or my job.”  But the pleasure…

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Episode 176 – Pressure to Perform

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In this episode, we’re talking about pressure. Both the pressure we put on ourselves and the pressure we feel from our spouses. And in reality, how the internal and external…

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August 2021

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Episode 175 – The Language of Love and Sex

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In this episode, let’s talk about words. What are words? They are just letters and syllables that we have been taught are good or bad. But why are they good…

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Episode 174 – How I Fixed My Sexual Relationship: An Interview with Mike Peterson

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In this episode, I speak with Mike Peterson about his experiences with fixing his sexual relationship in his marriage. I am so excited to share with you the male perspective…

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Episode 173 – My Experience with Boudoir Photography

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In this episode, I am going to get a little vulnerable with you and talk about my experience with boudoir photography. I, like you, had the wrong idea about what…

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Episode 172 – Myths and Truths of Men’s Sexuality

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In American and Conservative Christian culture, we are often taught things about men’s sexuality that are myths. Actually, they are really outright lies. In this episode, we go through 3…

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July 2021

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom

    What happens when a man spends his whole life believing his desire could hurt someone? In this episode, I will explore how religious and cultural messages about male sexuality can lead men to disconnect from their own desire, constantly monitor themselves during sex, and quietly seek validation from their wives without even realizing it. I’ll talk about how this pattern shows up differently in marriage, why it often creates pressure and disconnection for both spouses, and what actually helps men become more present and connected. I’ll also share how wives can support without taking responsibility for fixing it, and what changes when men finally learn that their desire was never the problem in the first place.

    Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
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    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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    Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex
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    March 27, 2026
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