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Episode 191 – Learning To Trust

  • Post published:December 17, 2021
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Do you trust others? Your spouse? Your friends? Your co-workers? Your children? If trusting others is hard for you, maybe you don't trust yourself. Trusting yourself is the first step…

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Episode 190 – Creating the Space for Desire

  • Post published:December 10, 2021
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Do you desire sex? If you said no, why is that? Is it because you have lost your desire completely or is it because you aren’t giving yourself enough space…

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Episode 189 – Faking Orgasms

  • Post published:December 3, 2021
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We all fake orgasms every once in a while, right? Studies show that 80% of women have faked an orgasm one time in their relationship. Why? In this episode, I…

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Episode 188 – Emotional Connection vs Physical Connection

  • Post published:November 26, 2021
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I often hear the same things from my clients. The women say, “I have to feel an emotional connection in order to want the physical connection.” And the men say,…

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Episode 187 – Sexual Energy

  • Post published:November 19, 2021
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We have all seen the Yin and Yang symbol and we may think we know what it means. But in this episode, let’s talk about what the different energies mean…

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Episode 186 – The Hard Part of Building True Intimacy

  • Post published:November 12, 2021
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I have a lot of men come to me wanting to be coached. And while I feel for them, I have dedicated my life to helping women with their sexuality.…

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Episode 185 – What Turns Women Off

  • Post published:November 5, 2021
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So often the men in our lives focus on what turns us women on. (Maybe we women do that a bit too!) But maybe they are consciously, or unconsciously, doing…

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Episode 184 – What Turns Women On

  • Post published:October 29, 2021
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In doing research for this episode, I found a lot of information that is just plain wrong! No wonder men are confused about what  women want! So let’s talk about…

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The Doctor’s Wife Podcast

  • Post published:October 27, 2021
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I was interviewed by Sara Payne with The Doctor's Wife Podcast. We talk openly, honestly, and vulnerably about embracing your sexuality. Every woman should listen to this episode and share it…

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Episode 183 – Creating Sexual Context

  • Post published:October 22, 2021
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It’s all about context. We all want to feel emotionally connected to our spouse but are we sabotaging that with what we’re thinking about and focusing on? When you’re working…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating

    How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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