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October 2022

  • Post published:October 31, 2022

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Episode 236 – The High Achieving/Peace Keeping Dynamic

  • Post published:October 28, 2022

In this episode, I am speaking with Rhonda Farr. Rhonda is a life coach who works with men and their emotional intimacy. We talk about the high achieving/peacekeeper dynamic that…

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Episode 235 – Coaching Changed our Marriage

  • Post published:October 21, 2022

In this special episode, I spoke with Maddie and Matt. I have been coaching Maddie for a little over a year now. We talked about what my coaching program is…

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kids and sex

Episode 234 – When Kids Disrupt Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 14, 2022

If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having sex, I would have added a lot to my piggy…

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Episode 233 – Your Sexual Prime

  • Post published:October 7, 2022

I think it’s safe to say that we all want a great sex life. But most of us just don’t know how to get it! When we run into problems…

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A Bit Better Every Day with Ashlee Sorensen Podcast

  • Post published:October 3, 2022

Listen in as my dear friend Ashlee and I have a  friendly and fun conversation about sex. Listen here.

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September 2022

  • Post published:October 3, 2022

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no sex

Episode 232 – I Don’t Care if I Ever Have Sex Again: A Conversation with Mike Frazier, MD

  • Post published:September 30, 2022

In this episode I’m talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks when she says that she doesn’t care if she ever…

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bad sex

Episode 231 – Bad Sex

  • Post published:September 23, 2022

Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex is or that bad sex is better than no sex.…

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Sprinkled with Hope Podcast

  • Post published:September 20, 2022

In this episode, we talked about how I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about sex, and I had a lot of shame around my sexuality and…

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Episode 230 – Sex Isn’t A Drive

  • Post published:September 16, 2022

Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think…

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Episode 229 – Duty Sex

  • Post published:September 9, 2022

What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it.…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 444 – The Difference Between Being Wanted and Being Loved

    The spouse who wants sex more often tends to believe that all of the effort, the helping, the compliments, the constant attentiveness, is love. Usually it isn’t. In this episode I talk about the difference between wanting someone to love you and actually loving them, and why those two things feel identical from the inside. We look at what a transaction can and cannot buy in a marriage, the anxiety underneath all that pursuit, and what love actually looks like on an ordinary day. There is something here for the spouse who has been doing the pursuing and for the one who has been on the receiving end of it.

    Episode 444 – The Difference Between Being Wanted and Being Loved
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    Episode 443 – Do Men Just Want Sex for Pleasure?
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    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
    October 9, 2026
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    October 2, 2026
    Episode 440 – Why Couples Stop Kissing and How to Revive It
    September 25, 2026
    Episode 439 – Why the Changes You Make Never Last
    September 18, 2026
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    September 11, 2026
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    August 28, 2026
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    August 21, 2026
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