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Silent Sex
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Episode 223 – Silent Sex

  • Post published:July 29, 2022
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Silence can be good, if it’s a comfortable silence. But when we are uncomfortably silent with our partner, especially in the bedroom, we lose the intimacy that is so important…

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Episode 222 – When You Don’t Know What You Want In Bed

  • Post published:July 22, 2022
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Has your partner ever asked what you wanted in bed, or what felt good, or what you wanted to do next, but you had no idea what to tell him?…

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Episode 221 – Healing from Infidelity: An Interview with Andrea Giles

  • Post published:July 15, 2022
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In this podcast episode, I talk with Andrea Giles. Andrea helps women heal from infidelity in her coaching program. We talked about how to build trust with yourself again after…

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Episode 220 – The Fear of Pleasure

  • Post published:July 8, 2022
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Do you fear pleasure? You might be saying ‘no’ but many of my clients do. Think about it. Do you take compliments well? Do you look at others who are…

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Dating After Divorce Podcast

  • Post published:July 6, 2022
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In today’s episode, I share my divorce and remarriage story, how I came out of an emotionally abusive marriage and how I met my current husband six weeks after my…

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Episode 219 – Conscious Partnerships

  • Post published:July 1, 2022
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When we get married, we often think that if we married the “right person,” then everything will be easy. This is simply not true. Every relationship takes work. In this…

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​​Episode 218 – The Importance of Being Selfish

  • Post published:June 24, 2022
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Do you think that your own desires are selfish? Most of us women do. We’ve been taught this by well meaning people either explicitly or implicitly. While our desires are…

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Episode 217 – Reclaiming Desire & Eros

  • Post published:June 17, 2022
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Do you remember what it was like when you were dating your husband? Every touch was electric. You felt alive, maybe for the first time. That was eros energy. The…

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Episode 216 – CFM: Why is Chastity Important in God’s Plan?

  • Post published:June 10, 2022
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There is a Come, Follow Me lesson coming up in the youth program about the Law of Chastity. I feel that we need to be careful when we’re teaching our…

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The Confident Mompreneur Podcast

  • Post published:June 7, 2022
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In this episode, I talked with Kyrie from The Confident Mompreneur podcast about how to develop a better relationship with our sexuality by rebuilding our beliefs around sex, understanding how…

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Episode 215 – The Sexless Marriage

  • Post published:June 3, 2022
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According to a survey, about 2% of marriages are completely sexless. Or, according to another study, couples are only having sex 10 times a year. Now, if 10 times a…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating

    How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode, I talk about what often happens when the higher desire partner stops initiating and why that silence can bring both relief and unexpected grief for women. I explore responsive desire, avoidance, emotional safety, and the complicated vulnerability of reaching back toward someone after months or years of disconnection. We also talk about what healthy initiation can actually look like, how to rebuild trust in small ways, and what to do if you’re not even sure you want the sexual relationship to return at all. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting closeness and wanting to protect yourself, this episode will help you understand what may really be happening underneath it all.

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