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Speak Your Truth

Episode 151 – Speaking Your Truth

  • Post published:March 12, 2021
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Did you know we all tell ourselves lies as a way to protect ourselves?  On the podcast I am talking about what those lies look like in different aspects of…

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Overcoming Resentment

  • Post published:March 11, 2021
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The Expat Mom

  • Post published:March 7, 2021
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I was interviewed by Jennifer Linton for The Expat Mom Podcast. We discussed how to create more desire in your marriage. Listen here.

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The Legit Motherhood Podcast (2nd Interview)

  • Post published:March 7, 2021
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I was interviewed by Haili Murch for the This is Legit Motherhood podcast for the second time.  This time we discussed the importance of touch and how to get in…

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Episode 150 – The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction

  • Post published:March 5, 2021
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According to the Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction there are 3 positive. . .and 3 negative levels of sex in a partnership. Today I will go into each level with…

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Connecting With Your Spouse

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Episode 149 – The Hard Work of Marriage

  • Post published:February 26, 2021
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We have all heard or lived through the phrase that marriage is hard work.  Today I am digging into why it is hard, why it requires so much work.  The…

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Better Communication in Marriage

  • Post published:February 25, 2021
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Episode 148 – Sex and Chronic Pain or Illness

  • Post published:February 19, 2021
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Episode 147 – 10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship

  • Post published:February 12, 2021
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What does a healthy relationship look like?  Today I will give you ten warning signs that you may need to examine.  You may need to get some help or even…

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Episode 146 – When Sex is Boring

  • Post published:February 5, 2021
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Sex should be anything but boring, but what I am hearing from many of you . . . is that it is exactly that.  The good news is that It…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, I want to talk about something a lot of women quietly wonder but rarely say out loud: what if sex isn’t bad, but it’s also not very good? In this episode, I unpack why so many women experience sex as “meh,” even in loving marriages where both partners are trying. We look at how expectations, anatomy, mental patterns, and our relationship with pleasure all shape how sex actually feels. I explain why nothing is broken about you if sex hasn’t lived up to the hype, and how pleasure is something that’s learned, not automatic. If you’ve ever wondered why sex feels underwhelming or why you’d rather do almost anything else, this conversation will help you understand what’s really going on and what can change.

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