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Episode 153 – Sexual Feasts, Famines, and Snacks

  • Post published:March 26, 2021
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When it comes to sex, sometimes you want a feast, sometimes you want a snack, and sometimes you go through periods of famine.  And today I am going to jump…

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Episode 152 – How The Vagina and the Voice Are Connected

  • Post published:March 19, 2021
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Last year I had the opportunity to hear Stephanie Sorensen speak at a sexual education event.  I found myself completely fascinated and furiously taking notes. Today she will share many…

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Episode 151 – Speaking Your Truth

  • Post published:March 12, 2021
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Did you know we all tell ourselves lies as a way to protect ourselves?  On the podcast I am talking about what those lies look like in different aspects of…

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Overcoming Resentment

  • Post published:March 11, 2021
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The Expat Mom

  • Post published:March 7, 2021
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I was interviewed by Jennifer Linton for The Expat Mom Podcast. We discussed how to create more desire in your marriage. Listen here.

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The Legit Motherhood Podcast (2nd Interview)

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I was interviewed by Haili Murch for the This is Legit Motherhood podcast for the second time.  This time we discussed the importance of touch and how to get in…

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Episode 150 – The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction

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According to the Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction there are 3 positive. . .and 3 negative levels of sex in a partnership. Today I will go into each level with…

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Connecting With Your Spouse

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Episode 149 – The Hard Work of Marriage

  • Post published:February 26, 2021
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We have all heard or lived through the phrase that marriage is hard work.  Today I am digging into why it is hard, why it requires so much work.  The…

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Better Communication in Marriage

  • Post published:February 25, 2021
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Episode 148 – Sex and Chronic Pain or Illness

  • Post published:February 19, 2021
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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t want, while her husband still feels unsatisfied. I’ll explain why orgasms aren’t the same thing as satisfaction, and how duty sex can actually block the connection both partners are craving. I’ll unpack how this pattern creates deep resentment for her, confusion for him, and eventually a crisis point that forces the relationship to change. I’ll also share what real repair can look like, how couples can move from obligation to genuine desire, and why quality and connection matter far more than frequency. This episode will be especially helpful for anyone who feels stuck in a painful sexual stalemate and wants clarity on what’s really going wrong and what healing could look like.

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