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orgasm

Episode 179 – It Takes Too Long To Orgasm!

  • Post published:September 24, 2021

Does your orgasm take too long? This is a complaint I hear all of the time from my clients. We as women are culturally trained that our needs are secondary…

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like sex

Episode 178 – It’s Okay That You Don’t Like Sex

  • Post published:September 17, 2021

Did the title of this podcast surprise you? It surprises a lot of my clients too. But it actually makes a lot of sense that you don’t like sex. In…

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September 2021

  • Post published:September 16, 2021

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pleasure

Episode 177 – Why Pleasure Matters

  • Post published:September 10, 2021

I want to ask you a question. Are you afraid of pleasure? Maybe you're thinking, “Of course not! I find pleasure in my family or my job.”  But the pleasure…

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pressure to perform

Episode 176 – Pressure to Perform

  • Post published:September 3, 2021

In this episode, we’re talking about pressure. Both the pressure we put on ourselves and the pressure we feel from our spouses. And in reality, how the internal and external…

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August 2021

  • Post published:August 30, 2021

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language of love and sex

Episode 175 – The Language of Love and Sex

  • Post published:August 27, 2021

In this episode, let’s talk about words. What are words? They are just letters and syllables that we have been taught are good or bad. But why are they good…

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relationships

Episode 174 – How I Fixed My Sexual Relationship: An Interview with Mike Peterson

  • Post published:August 20, 2021

In this episode, I speak with Mike Peterson about his experiences with fixing his sexual relationship in his marriage. I am so excited to share with you the male perspective…

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Episode 173 – My Experience with Boudoir Photography

  • Post published:August 13, 2021

In this episode, I am going to get a little vulnerable with you and talk about my experience with boudoir photography. I, like you, had the wrong idea about what…

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sexuality

Episode 172 – Myths and Truths of Men’s Sexuality

  • Post published:August 6, 2021

In American and Conservative Christian culture, we are often taught things about men’s sexuality that are myths. Actually, they are really outright lies. In this episode, we go through 3…

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July 2021

  • Post published:August 2, 2021

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Episode 171 – Equality in Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

  • Post published:July 30, 2021

In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about equality in marriage. This is something that is ingrained in our culture but can be really detrimental to our marriages.…

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    Sex for Saints
    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 444 – The Difference Between Being Wanted and Being Loved

    The spouse who wants sex more often tends to believe that all of the effort, the helping, the compliments, the constant attentiveness, is love. Usually it isn’t. In this episode I talk about the difference between wanting someone to love you and actually loving them, and why those two things feel identical from the inside. We look at what a transaction can and cannot buy in a marriage, the anxiety underneath all that pursuit, and what love actually looks like on an ordinary day. There is something here for the spouse who has been doing the pursuing and for the one who has been on the receiving end of it.

    Episode 444 – The Difference Between Being Wanted and Being Loved
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