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Scarcity
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Episode 158 – Sexual Scarcity

  • Post published:April 30, 2021
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When something is scarce, you want it more! (Remember the toilet paper shortage of 2020?) So what does this have to do with sex and marriage? When you’re not having…

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TRANSACTIONAL SEX

Episode 157 – Transactional Sex

  • Post published:April 23, 2021
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What exactly is transactional sex?  The idea that your relationship could include this type of sex is probably something you may not even be aware of - but there’s definitely…

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Episode 156 – The Disappearing Orgasm

  • Post published:April 16, 2021
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Description Here Play in a new window Download Show Notes: Follow Amanda on Facebook and Instagram. Join Amanda's Private Facebook Group. References for this episode: www.bustle.com Show Summary: Have you…

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The Latter-Day Life Coaches Podcast

  • Post published:April 13, 2021
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I was interviewed by Heather Rackham for The Latter-Day Life Coaches Podcast. We discussed how to embrace your sexuality and what that means in the context of our belief systems.…

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Vacation Sex

Episode 155 – Vacation Sex

  • Post published:April 9, 2021
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Whether you are in a tropical location, exploring a new city, or tucked away somewhere remote, time out of your usual routine is so good for the mind, body, and…

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March 2021

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Single to Sealed Podcast Interview

Single To Sealed Podcast

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I was interviewed by Briahnna and Jerry for the Single To Sealed podcast where we talked about the six principles of sexual health and how they can be our guide…

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Episode 154 – Adding Fun and Variety To Your Sex Life

  • Post published:April 2, 2021
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I am so excited for the podcast today. I will be joined by Dan Purcell. He and his wife Emily are the founders of “Get Your Marriage On.”  Dan is…

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AwakenYou in your Marriage

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I was interviewed by Christine Bongiovanni for The AwakenYou in your Marriage Podcast. We discussed how to love your sex life. Listen here.

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Episode 153 – Sexual Feasts, Famines, and Snacks

  • Post published:March 26, 2021
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When it comes to sex, sometimes you want a feast, sometimes you want a snack, and sometimes you go through periods of famine.  And today I am going to jump…

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Episode 152 – How The Vagina and the Voice Are Connected

  • Post published:March 19, 2021
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Last year I had the opportunity to hear Stephanie Sorensen speak at a sexual education event.  I found myself completely fascinated and furiously taking notes. Today she will share many…

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Episode 151 – Speaking Your Truth

  • Post published:March 12, 2021
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Did you know we all tell ourselves lies as a way to protect ourselves?  On the podcast I am talking about what those lies look like in different aspects of…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh air. I’m sharing why the harder you push for connection, the more distance you might actually be creating, and what’s really going on underneath that dynamic. We’ll talk about the subtle pressure that shows up in relationships (even with the best intentions) and why it can shut desire down completely. I’ll walk you through a simple but powerful framework called the ABC Loop that helps you create change without resistance. If you’re tired of feeling rejected or stuck, this episode will give you a completely different way to approach intimacy.

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