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July 2021

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equality

Episode 171 – Equality in Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

  • Post published:July 30, 2021
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about equality in marriage. This is something that is ingrained in our culture but can be really detrimental to our marriages.…

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Episode 170 – Sexual Repression and the Parable of The Talents

  • Post published:July 23, 2021
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Have you buried your sexual desire? How do you know if you have? In our conservative Christian culture, we are often taught that sex is bad or unpleasant, that thinking…

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Initiating

Episode 169 – Initiating Ideas and Styles

  • Post published:July 16, 2021
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Is your husband always initiating sex? In a recent study, that’s what they found, that often men are the ones initiating. But why aren’t you initiating sex? Today we are…

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Episode 168 – Consent within Marriage

  • Post published:July 9, 2021
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Consent is truly a buzzword right now. In this episode, we take a look at what consent truly means, in your sex life and beyond, and how we can be…

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The Single to Sealed Podcast

  • Post published:July 8, 2021
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I was interviewed by the Single to Sealed podcast. We chatted about everything from how to manage sexpectations before marriage, how to set boundaries with your partner before marriage, how…

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The Brave Talk Show Podcast

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I was interviewed by the amazing ladies at the Brave Talk Show podcast. We discussed how to enjoy sex in your marriage more when it is more she-centered. You will…

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June 2021

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Needs

Episode 167 – Is Sex A Need?

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Is sex a need? The answer is no...kind of. There are differing viewpoints on how important sex is to each of us, but what we really need to look at…

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Episode 166 – Safety, Trust, and Vulnerability

  • Post published:June 25, 2021
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The 3 keys to any healthy sexual relationship are safety, trust, and vulnerability. And they all build on each other. If we don’t feel safe, we can’t trust our partner,…

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Brain Diet Podcast

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I was interviewed by Taylor Ann Macey with the Brain Diet Podcast. We discussed what constitutes good sex, what gets in the way of good sex, and ways to start…

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Episode 165 – Sex and the Menstrual Cycle

  • Post published:June 18, 2021
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I get asked a lot about desire. My clients notice that throughout the month they are either really ready for sex or they don’t want it at all. And then…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On

    What if the problem in your sex life isn’t really about sex at all? In this episode, I’m talking about emotional safety and the powerful role it plays in both your marriage and your sexual relationship. We’ll look at the patterns that slowly break down emotional safety, including criticism, defensiveness, dismissal, and shame, as well as what both partners can do to rebuild trust and connection. I’ll also help you recognize when you may be contributing to an emotionally unsafe environment and show you how curiosity, accountability, repair, and consistency can begin to change those patterns. Because the deepest intimacy happens when both partners feel safe enough to be fully known.

    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
    July 24, 2026
    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
    July 17, 2026
    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
    July 10, 2026
    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help
    June 26, 2026
    Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
    June 19, 2026
    Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
    June 12, 2026
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